If you want to look good, start by changing the way you speak.
speaking is the easiest and most difficult. The leader has arranged a new task, and you will say, "I'm sure I can do it well." Still say, "it's annoying to work endlessly." The former will be full of confidence and go all out, while the latter will be full of grievances and perfunctory. Different answers represent different attitudes, and different actions indicate different outcomes. Every seemingly casual word not only reveals what you are thinking at present, but also hides the direction of your life in the future. Cai Kangyong said, "you are what you say." What you often say is prophecy for your own life. A friend told us the story of two children in her class. Students An and B go hand in hand, neck and neck. But the strange thing is that An is always the first and B is always the second. In fact, the score gap between the two is not big, but no matter how hard classmate B tries, it seems to be of no avail. He said, "as long as classmate An is here, I will never win the first place." Once, without the knowledge of the two students, the teacher put them in two classrooms and made a paper at the same time. As a result, both of them got full marks. Language is a weapon, and we often say words that grow in the body, melt into the blood, enter the subconscious, and imply behavior. When you are positive, sunny, confident, cheer yourself up and are hinted at every day, you will work towards excellence, and the result will get better and better. If you often say "annoying, terrible", if you talk too much, things will really get worse. Murphy's law tells us that things tend to go in the bad direction you think. If a person often receives the message "I can't", he or she will subconsciously suspect that he really can't, and he will be afraid of his hands and feet and give up his efforts. Ask yourself, most of the time, it is not difficulties that overcome us, but we give up on ourselves. Language is like a spell, you set limits for yourself, like drawing a circle on the ground as a prison, setting a circle that will never escape. There is a concept in psychology called "self-fulfilling prophecy", which means that because of human narcissistic nature, you will fall in love with what you often say and try to make it come true. If an idea is deeply ingrained in your heart, you will verify it over and over again, and even create conditions and opportunities until you prove yourself right. The life of a man who cries all day long about his misery is really bad; for a man who often says "I can do it", his life is full of hope. Language is not only a tool to express ideas, but also a weapon to imply oneself; words are not only spoken to others, but more often to themselves. Colleague Xiaomei remarried, and the first marriage failed because her ex-husband couldn't do anything well in her eyes. If you can't see the work in your eyes, say a word and move; the clothes you change will not be washed in time, and you won't cook when it's time. Men, I can't count on anything. These words became her mantra. Her ex-husband thoroughly became a shopkeeper in her endless nagging and scolding. And they also ended in divorce. This time, Xiaomei opened her eyes and found a family-oriented and diligent person. Soon, the relationship between the two men turned red again. The reason is that the clothes are not washed separately and dyed in color. Xiao Mei began to chatter endlessly: I don't even have that kind of common sense! It doesn't help if you can't do anything. You can't let me worry about it, man, I can't count on it. The husband put up with it again and again in Xiaomei's accusation, and finally slammed the door and left. Psychologist Jung once said: "people's subconscious guides life, but people think that's fate." In fact, fate and circumstances are hidden in everyone's words and deeds. Examples like this can be seen everywhere in life: He said, "Oh, no, I'm going to be late for work", but I was really late. Saying, "it's another bad day, I'm really in a bad mood", and then it's really not a smooth day. I felt in my heart that something would go wrong today, but if there was a mistake in my work, I was criticized by the leader. Some people say that there are two people in everyone's body, one is an angel and the other is the devil. The key is which one you awaken with words. The words of angels are like magical blessings, not only glowing themselves, but also surrounded by light. The devil's words are like endless black holes, dejected and miserable around him. Positive people are like the sun, shining wherever they shine; negative people are like the moon, all the same in the first 15. Life is not elsewhere, in our minds, but also in our words. Wang Jie, a famous musician in Taiwan, lived a hard life when he was a child. When he was 15 years old, when he worked in a teahouse, he was accused of stealing teahouse food because he ate Steamed BBQ Pork Bun, which was left after the guests paid the bill. The manager slapped him in the face and fired him. Wang Jie told himself: "everything is not doomed, I have my favorite music, no matter how difficult I will stick to it." Ten years later, one Game, one Dream was published. A colleague said in a strange tone: "your singing is so strange. How much do you think it will sell?" Wang Jie said frankly, "300000." In less than half a day, his answer was spread all over the company as a joke. Wang Jie, who was ridiculed, always told himself: "it is impossible for people to be doomed, and there is always a reward for their efforts." A few months later, "one Game, one Dream" won the top of the pop list and finally made Wang Jie an overnight hit with a score of 18 million. There is a saying: "when you think you can do it, the whole world will make way for you." You don't think you can do it, and the gods can't do anything about it. " If you say yes, you can do it, or you can't; if you say you can't, then you can't, and you can't either. If you doubt yourself, how can others believe you? Research by scientists shows that: Those who have made extraordinary achievements will always give themselves language hints at critical moments, which will greatly boost their self-confidence and overcome numerous difficulties. The power of the subconscious is enormous, and the suggestion of language is the most effective way to influence the subconscious. Many successful people are good at using verbal cues to motivate themselves. Yu Minhong often said: "the beginning does not determine the end." Lin Dan often said, "through your own persistence and efforts, you can impress others." Excellent people are first of all confident people.Whatever you believe, you will become. Mouth, between opening and closing, is the mouth spitting lotus flowers, or bad words to each other? Do you mean to say that the world is beautiful, or that it is sinister? Do you use "I can" and "I can" motivate myself, or do you say "bad" and "bad" negate negativity? Pay attention to your words and thoughts, because everyone lives in his own mouth. If you want to look good, start by changing the way you speak. Stop saying "I can't" and replace it with "I can"; stop saying "bored to death" and replace it with "not bad". What you say, what will become your destiny. Encourage each other.
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