It turns out that this is the "crow's law".

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there was such a story:

the crow and the pigeon live in a small forest. One day, the crow was ready to leave, so he said goodbye to his friend pigeon.

the pigeon asked him, "Why did you move out?"

the pigeon pondered for a long time and said to the crow, "my friend, if you don't change your voice, no matter where you fly, no one will welcome you."

this is the law of crows.

if you do not change some of your shortcomings, but blindly choose to escape, then the problem will not be solved, and there will be more problems at the same time.

A sign of maturity is the ability to reflect on yourself from time to time, face up to your shortcomings and shortcomings, and try to change them.

change your mood: don't blame anything.

A man who is not a sage is infallible.

everyone can make mistakes, and no one is perfect.

not blaming when something happens, it not only reflects a person's self-cultivation, but also makes things better handled.

Su Shi, a great writer, has been repeatedly demoted, bumpy and rugged.

the farthest time, I was demoted to Hainan, which is "ten thousand miles away, a thousand knowledge will not be returned".

the harsh climatic environment tortures Su Shi's physical and mental will. But in a desperate situation, he was still light and laughed it off.

in the third year of his demotion to Hainan, Song Zhe Zong died, Song Huizong Zhao Gou succeeded to the throne, and the court granted amnesty to the world.

Zhangdun's son, fearing that Su Shi would retaliate when he came back, wrote to Su Shi all night to beg for mercy, hoping to be lenient.

in his reply, he wrote the following sentence: "but in the past, what is more beneficial, only if it has not happened."

it's all over, so don't mention it any more. Take good care of yourself.

in the face of the harm Zhang Dun had done to him in the past, Su Shi chose to ignore it.

blame yourself with the heart of blaming others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself.

things have happened, and even reproach will not help, it will only add to the annoyance.

learn to think of others, compare your heart to heart, stop blaming, learn tolerance, life will be more and more smooth, the road of life will be wider and wider.

change your mindset: bad things don't get entangled

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Nietzsche said in the other side of good and Evil:

"if you struggle with the dragon for too long, you will become the dragon itself." If you stare at the abyss for too long, the abyss will come back to gaze. "

people will encounter a lot of unhappy things in their life, unhappy people, if everything has to worry about right or wrong, in the end will only tired others, but also suffering from their own.

it is not only an attitude, but also a kind of wisdom not to be entangled in bad things.

many people know the story of Han Xin's "humiliation in the crotch".

when provoked by the butcher, Han Xin chose to endure a great insult and drill through the butcher's hip.

it was only then that we had the seal of the general, broke all the items, and reached the peak of our life.

Voltaire once said:

"it is not the distant mountain that makes people tired, but a grain of sand in the shoe."

not entanglement is not cowardice, but letting go.

none of us can change the existence of bad people, nor can we change the development of bad things.

the only thing that can change is your own state of mind.

change the habit: read more when you have nothing to do

Reading is the cure for everything. those books that have been read will melt in the blood and become part of the temperament.

Chen Daoming became famous overnight for playing the role of Puyi, a young man in the TV series "the Last Emperor."

many troupes invited him to act, and he began to get carried away.

until 1990, Chen Daoming met Qian Zhongshu while filming Fortress besieged.

when he was a guest at Qian Zhongshu's house, he found that they had no VCR, no TV, no telephone.

only the rows of bookshelves, Qian Zhongshu's wife Yang Jiang, was reading quietly.

it was only then that Chen Daoming realized: "in front of intellectuals and learning, I feel that my fame is not even a fart!"

so in his hottest time, he hid and began not to watch TV. the bed in the study was also full of books, and when he was tired, he slept in a pile of books.

Ji Xianlin once said that Chen Daoming's literary level is competent as a graduate tutor at Peking University.

"any time you spend on reading will be rewarded at some point."

the meaning of reading is not only the refuge of life, but also the things that can't be understood, the truth that can't be understood, and the dilemma that can't get out of.

all the problems encountered in life can be answered in the book.

the success and failure of life are decided by yourself. Only by learning to change can you make yourself better and better.

Don't blame anything, look for the reason from yourself.

Don't get entangled with bad things, learn to free your heart;

if you have nothing to do, read more and find the most authentic life.The meaning of.

he who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise.

for the rest of my life, be strict with yourself, be lenient to others, and work hard in a down-to-earth manner, life will surely bloom brightly.