When you are fifty, you will suddenly understand the truth.

youshucc Time is fleeting, and gray hair is a moment away. As the saying goes, "you know your destiny at fifty." After so many years of ups and downs in the world, when we reach the age of 50, we have a new understanding of life. Finally understood what Mr. Lao she said: "Life is a rhythm, there must be light and shadow, left and right, sunny and rainy, and the taste is contained in this twists and turns that become less fierce." The ups and downs of life, the merits and demerits of right and wrong have all become clouds of the past. Once those problems that have been bothering us, we suddenly understand as we walk. I can't help my mother when my children are old. It is said that children are a concern that parents can not give up all their lives, but one day you will understand that this concern will have to be put down eventually. When we are gradually halfway through life, the child has grown up and has a small family of his own. They are no longer chicks to protect, but eagles to spread their wings and soar. And what we can do is to quit their lives and leave a vast sky for them to soar. I once watched a video. When an old man retired, his son happened to be married. In order to take care of his son and daughter-in-law, the old man moved to their neighborhood and was equipped with a key to his son's house. Every morning, the old man came to his son's house to make breakfast for them. In the evening, when the children were asleep, she left. One day, she came to her son's house as usual to cook and found that the key could not open the door. It turned out that the door lock had been changed, but in order not to break her heart, her son told her that the reason for changing the lock was poor law and order in the community. How can an old man not understand what his son means? My son just doesn't want her to work too hard. But she has been worrying about it for half her life and can't give up all the time. When she got home, she complained to her wife, who, without saying a word, booked a plane ticket to take her to the grasslands of Inner Mongolia. There, the old man saw the whole process of the mother sheep giving birth. Her wife said to her: "after the lamb is born, the mother of the lamb will give it the best care. But when the sheep grow up, they will let go and let them run independently on the prairie. " The old man finally understood the true intention of his wife: the real love for his children should actually be a decent exit. Everyone is doomed to take the road in this life, if we pave the way for our children in the first half of life, then we must learn to let go in the second half. As writer Frank Clark said: "the most important lesson that parents can teach their children is how to live without their parents." A fight between parents and children is actually a process of drifting away and slowly letting go. Because we can protect our children for a while, but we can't accompany them forever. Never cut off your children's wings in the name of "love". They finally have to put on their own shoes, go their own way and climb their own mountains. The greatest love of parents is to quit in time and let them fly freely in the sky of the new world. It's not yours. I can't beg. I have heard a saying: "the ordinary world is the final destination of most people." When I was young, many people did not believe in heaven and earth, but only believed that my fate was up to me. But as we get older, we find that we have tried our best and are still living an ordinary life, busy with our livelihood. But what does it matter? Now that we have tried our best, there will be no regrets and no regrets. Life is not a math problem. There is a standard answer to every question. Gains and losses, honor and disgrace, cloudy and sunny, are also the scenery on the road of life. In the documentary long live, there is a story about a granny who is nearly eighty years old. While others are enjoying their twilight years, she hawks by the side of the road, braving a high temperature of more than 40 degrees. The old man has to use the money he earns to pay off his debts. Because seven years ago, in order to invest in her children, she sold the house she had lived in for most of her life. Now that she is nearly 80 years old, her children have failed to invest and have no one to depend on. Is she suffering? Of course, it was bitter, but when the old woman talked about it, she didn't cry, but she was very calm. Even after setting up the stall, he discussed with his wife: "after paying off the debt, shall we change to a big house or go out for a trip?" Once the wind and waves have smiled, a thousand troops are burdened with dust. Granny's life may be less than 60 points, but her attitude towards life is 100 points. It can still be so at the age of 80, not to mention us at that time. Yu Shi Mingyan says: "A man's life comes with sorrow, and he knows there is nothing he can do about it. And peace of life is the first key to standing up. " Life, most of life will be attributed to ordinary, some people may also fall into gloom. But if there are no distractions and live calmly, flowers will blossom in the ordinary, and the stars can be bright in the dim. When the pace of life is about to be fifty years old, it is time to work hard, and let go of what should be put down. Get calm, lose indifferent, strive for its necessity, let nature take its course. After doing your best, being able to go with what happens, this is the best attitude towards life. A hundred acquaintances, a white head. Along the way of life, I meet a lot of people. When I was a child, I had parents, classmates and friends. When I grew up, I had colleagues and family. But most people can only accompany us for a long way, walking, we suddenly found: More and more people exit from our lives, and we are always accompanied by our old wives. The couple in the TV series Wang Gui and Anna, one is the country bumpkin, the other is the city lady. After the two people mistakenly became husband and wife, there were many contradictions because of the great differences in habits and values. The family has almost a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every five days. For this reason, there has been a divorce, and even the idea of having an affair in middle age. Once when Anna was ill, her first love, who had been away for many years, came to see her. And stay by her side to take good care of, cut the orange into a "little basket of flowers" to amuse her, cover the heat with her hands, and let her drink with a straw. Anna was very moved. Wang Gui is not as good as this. No matter he is born or educated, Wang Gui is not as good as him. So Anna's heart was shaken when her lover offered to take her away. But in the end, for the sake of her family and children, Anna refused to leave and chose to stay with Wang Gui. Because Anna understands that the romance of you and me is not worth holding hands in the same boat for a lifetime.Water flowing out in a trickle takes a long time to exhaust. Young couples are both temperamental and spirited. The broken chicken and dog in marriage can easily arouse our anger and always feel that we are facing the "wrong person". But after years of running-in, we will remove the edges and corners, snuggle up to each other, warm each other, and become each other's only rely on. As the saying goes, "the husband and wife who come to the end are friends of life and death." Can accompany you through the ups and downs of the world never give up, you can go through spring, summer, autumn and winter to grow old together It is none other than your wife who can deliver hot tea when you are sick and relieve your boredom when you are lonely. Do not expect the perfect partner and perfect marriage, and the "wrong person" to walk a "right path" in order to have happiness for the rest of life. To be yourself is to be free. We have a lot of labels in our lives. At the age of thirty, we have a family and become the maintainers of the family. At the age of forty, people of all ages and children became the backbone of life. But life is short, before living for others, then for yourself. By the time we are halfway through life, the children have grown up, their jobs have been stable, and their materials have been enriched. We should also lay down the burden and start another beautiful period of life. Look at the picture below. Can you imagine that this is a 55-year-old retired aunt? These photos are all her selfies. However, this aunt did not graduate from photography, let alone engaged in any photography-related work. Before retiring, she, like most people, was an ordinary worker who assembled microscopes on the factory assembly line. When she retired, my aunt picked up the camera and began to take pictures of herself. Because I like to make clothes, I go to the wholesale market to buy cheap cloth and take it home to design my own sewing. After every selfie, my aunt would post it on the Internet and share it with everyone. Unexpectedly, these photos with full personality suddenly became popular. After the surge of fans, some people wondered: "Why are you so old to take selfies of young people?" The aunt said, "I just like it, so I did it." The first half of this aunt's life is the epitome of many people's lives: ordinary, busy, dedicated half of her life for others. But after she retired, she lived the life she wanted according to her own heart. There is a saying in Silent confession: "our whole life is to get rid of the expectations of others and find who we really are." Life is too short to wait. After most of my life, it's time to stop and enjoy the fruits of your life. As the saying goes, "those who please others are numerous, and those who please themselves are king." When people are alive, they must make themselves happy. This is both skill and wisdom. ▽ Half a lifetime ups and downs in the blink of an eye, unwittingly approaching half a hundred. We have enjoyed joy, experienced regret, experienced happiness, and experienced loss. But time is in a hurry, life will not come again, instead of complaining about the rights and wrongs of the first half of life, cherish the present and be kind to the rest of life. Children grow up, learn to let go, this is the duty of parents Life is hard, learn to take it easy, this is the attitude of life Love fades, learn to be tolerant, this is the secret of happiness When you get older, learn to relax. This is the wisdom of life. I like Grandma Moses's sentence very much: "but may the years be good and the heart be calm." May we spend the rest of our lives unentangled, unconcerned, unindebted, unthankful, and be the best of ourselves.

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