When a person no longer asks for you...

Xiaobei I D: kuwoxiaobei When I was browsing the video a few days ago, I saw a story: Boys like girls. The girl sent a message in her moments that she wanted to drink milk. Before long, the boy sent a message to the girl: "I'll buy the milk you want to drink." I'm downstairs now. Come down and get it. " The girl replied to the boy: "Truth or dare lost. They asked me to send a circle of friends that can only be seen to you to see if you would come. As a result, you really came and laughed me to death." I thought the boy would be angry, but he didn't. He just replied, "do you want any more milk?" Someone in the comment said, "it's stupid of such a man to take the initiative to be attentive when she knows that the girl doesn't like her." Under this comment, a reply poked me, "this boy is not stupid, just afraid that once he stops taking the initiative, their relationship will be over." Yes, like a person, can not help but become active, want to take the initiative to chat with ta, want to create opportunities to meet, want to care about every development of ta, as long as ta needs you will immediately appear. And this love you give to the right person, then all the initiative will be worth it. But if you give it wrong, it will disturb you. You will chat with ta, and ta will reply to you, but he won't reply right away. He will even deliberately wait a few minutes, half an hour, or even a day. Don't you understand? No one's cell phone does not leave it, there is no timely reply, just because you are not important. He will not start the topic when chatting, because he is not afraid of your embarrassment; if he does not take the initiative to care about your life, he is not interested in you. I don't remember everything about you, and I don't care about your mood. it doesn't matter whether you play well or badly with other members of the opposite sex. So people who don't like you will definitely reduce the frequency of talking to you and interacting with you, and they won't have too much contact with you. When you start to make excuses for his indifference, you already know that he doesn't like you. There is a good saying: "it is impolite to keep knocking on a door that cannot be opened. For those who do not respond, it will be annoying to keep interrupting. " When you realize this, please stop your initiative and don't let your feelings become cheap again and again. If you take the initiative for a long time, you will be tired. A relationship that will end, taking the initiative again and again, is only a suspended sentence. I still remember an emotional blogger who said: "when people get along with each other, they never rely on initiative, but they both want to get close to and understand each other. In a relationship, hard work is useless, and people who don't care about you never intend to care about you. So why are you taking the initiative? taking the initiative won't bring us any closer. If you want a relationship that comes naturally, people who want to fight less hard and are willing to be on my side. " My colleague Lao Zhang once told me his story. He used to like a girl named Xiaomin, but the girl had suffered emotional injuries before, so it takes a long time to accept new people. In this relationship, the person who has been taking the initiative is Lao Zhang. Lao Zhang expressed his love many times, but Xiaomin said to wait. Until one day, Xiaomin was touched by Lao Zhang's words and promised him to try to be together. I still remember what Lao Zhang said to Xiaomin, "I really like you, but I don't want to be a licking dog." Don't let me take 99 steps, but you won't even take one step. " Xiaomin appreciates Lao Zhang's frankness. She also thinks that both sides in the relationship should be equal. If you like someone, you don't need to be so humble. Since you also like him, why not be brave and try again to give each other a chance. In this way, one of them dared to love and dare to chase, and the other was lovely and honest. Unexpectedly, they finally achieved a good story. Yes, in front of the relationship, no matter how many routines, there is no match for a true heart. No one is superior, and no one should lick a dog. If a person is willing to take the initiative to you, it means that he likes or likes you. If you feel the same way, respond bravely. You don't have to think about weighing the pros and cons or playing games. A sincere heart is more important than anything else. If you do not have the same feelings, please be honest with each other so as not to consume other people's feelings for you. ▽ We all know, like a person but do not get a response, is a person is not reconciled to things, but also have to accept, because life will always have such love and must not. As the movie "Love Wireless lead" said, "Love is not our active choice, nor will it develop in the way we expect." No matter how love appears or develops, I hope you will always believe that those who dare to like and maintain self-esteem are more worthy of appreciation than those who are active and humble. May you also be the one who loves boldly and sober and restrained.

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