There is a kind of top wisdom in life, called "forget it."

D J0 0123987 There is a saying in Cai Gentan: "the world is not dusty, and the sea is not bitter." The so-called troubles are nothing but troubles. Life is only a few decades, all the gains and losses of love and hate, together and scattered ups and downs, will eventually become a thing of the past. No matter how to solve the problem of life, there will be regrets. Instead of worrying about entanglement, it is better to turn around and leave. In the second half of life, putting down is a kind of spiritual practice, and "forget it" is a kind of wisdom. Luckily for me, I lost my life An employee of a company has been living a quiet and mundane life. Once, he had nothing to do and spent two yuan on a lottery ticket. I didn't expect anything. I just bought it for fun. But unexpectedly, he won a big prize. Because he usually likes sports cars, he bought one with his bonus and drove out for a ride all day. However, misfortune soon came and his car was stolen. Fearing that he could not get over it, his friends came to comfort him, but he smiled and said to his friends, "any of you who accidentally lost two dollars will seek life and death?" Friends are a little confused, he explained: "I bought a lottery ticket for two yuan, so I got this car, and now the car is lost, isn't it a loss of two yuan?" There is a saying: "get me lucky, lose my life." When you have it, don't be complacent. The windfall doesn't belong to you. If you lose it, don't be depressed, not yours will be lost sooner or later. At the beginning of Apple, there was a co-founder, Wayne, who later resigned and sold his 10% stake to Jobs for $800. Thirty-seven years later, however, the 10 per cent stake Mr Wayne hastily sold was valued at $35 billion. And after Wayne left Apple, he moved to several companies without a high income. When the reporter interviewed Wayne, he said calmly: "if I knew it could produce 300 millionaires in just four years, I might stay there. But for those things that did not happen, I will not waste time to worry, why should I go back to the past and ask myself the question "if"? The decision to leave Apple gave me the opportunity to do a job I was interested in, and I never regretted it. " In "Please answer 1994", there is a line: "there is no choice of regret in this world, and there is no right answer in life, only to believe that the path chosen is the right answer and turn it into the right answer." Some opportunities are missed even if they are missed. There is no need to sigh or regret. It is better to let go of gains and losses than to worry about gains and losses. Get together and break up, learn to be bearish. I have heard a lyric: "there will always be sudden encounters, unexpected love, unexpected goodbyes and nostalgia." Any emotion, gathering is fate, dispersion is also fate. Instead of entangling, it is better to look at each other calmly. Instead of thinking about it, it's better to wave goodbye. In the variety show "Please listen up, Friends", a girl named Ye called to say that she and her boyfriend had been in love for 10 years and had a long-distance relationship. At that time, her boyfriend studied abroad and she worked in China, but when the man returned home, both parents met and mentioned marriage. But a few days later, her boyfriend suddenly said to her: "maybe it's been too long. My feelings for you are not as enthusiastic as they used to be. Replaced by the insipid feeling like family, if you still want to marry me, it is OK, but I am only a kind of responsibility to you, ten years, this love has been weaker than the water. " The guests present at that time were silent after hearing this, and the host he Jiong kindly comforted her: "it is possible that after tasting other passions, he feels that he is only insipid with you. If this is the case, you are advised not to go through it hard, because not every relationship can last for 10 years. If you are wrong, do not continue this mistake. " Sometimes, what we can't let go is not a relationship, but what we have promised and given. There was a hot question on Weibo: "leave a message for those who don't have the chance to go to the end, what will you say?" One highly praised answer was: "No matter how rusty we are in the end, what we have been good to you is true." Perhaps the biggest regret in each other's hearts, but I always thank you for coming to my youth. I hope you can have a good time where I can't see you. Goodbye. " Many moments, leaving someone may make us miserable; missing a relationship may break our hearts. But you always need to know: The wrong person, no matter how to retain, has become a stranger; no matter how to insist on the wrong feelings, it is difficult to get back together. Instead of torturing each other, it is better to get together and break up. Only when you leave what is wrong will you meet what is right. Only let bygones be bygones, what should come will come. As soon as I put it down, I feel at ease. There is a question on Zhihu: "what does it mean to be able to pick it up and let it go?" There is a high praise answer is: "put it down is to remove it from your heart, no longer care about a thing, do not care about it, with a free and easy, detached state of mind to treat it." In this life, there are always some unbearable past and experiences. To learn to let go is not only to let others go, but also to let yourself go. To learn to despise is not only to be tolerant of others, but also to be considerate of yourself. Host Yang Lan once interviewed a well-known woman. When Yang Lan asked about some of her misfortunes and sufferings. She said that at that time, a staff member beside her taught her little daughter to sing songs about overthrowing her, and encouraged her to sing in front of her. This is so sinister and vicious that it is hard for anyone to let go. But when Yang Lan asked her, did you find this guy later? 'i don't want to know. If I want to know, this person will have bad luck, 'the woman said. So I don't ask, and I don't investigate. Many moments, the past, have passed. Instead of worrying about it, learn to let it go. In ancient times, a scholar went to Beijing for the exam and was plotted to fail the exam. at this time, his childhood lover also left him. From then on, the scholar never recovered, was unhappy every day, lived a negative life, and always lived in shadow and pain. One dayHe met an eminent monk and asked for advice on how to extricate himself. the eminent monk did not say much, but just let him follow him for three days. Within three days, the eminent monk only allowed the scholar to drink water and did not allow him to eat. He was allowed to feed horses and cut wood every day, and at night he was allowed to sleep in the stables. Three days later, the scholar broke down and cried and regretted why he had asked for trouble. The eminent monk said, "have you ever been like this before?" The scholar is enlightened. There is a saying in the Analects of Confucius: "Let bygones be bygones, let bygones be bygones." The more you entangle, the more you will pull yourself into the abyss. The more you fight, the more you will get yourself into a quagmire. Only by learning to lay down the burden in the heart, unload the burden in the heart, and clear the past, can we move forward light. ▽ Cartoonist Jimmy once said: "Don't dwell on an awkward thing for too long. If you have been entangled for too long, you will be annoyed, painful, epiglottic, tired, hurt, and heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you don't have a problem with things, but with yourself. No matter how uncomfortable it is, you have to learn to get out of it. " Life is too short to make things difficult for yourself. Keep an ordinary mind: It's not your reluctance, what you've lost, don't think about it. Forget it if you can't think about it, and let it go if you can't hold it. To share with my friends.

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