The highest self-cultivation is to respect other people's values.

what are the three values? Some people say that the three values are the world outlook, outlook on life and values, and the position and point of view in which we look at things. That's true. There are 10000 kinds of people in this world, and there are 10000 kinds of values. Sometimes, the differences between people's values are even greater than those in the Mariana Trench. People with different values need not persuade each other, but they should respect each other. The three values are the furthest distance between people. The writer Ai Xiaoyang once told a story. On the high-speed train, a father is educating his adolescent son. He painstakingly advised his children to study hard and not to desert in class, and cited some inspirational stories of successful entrepreneurs when they were young. The son was so impatient that he even played games, and then closed his eyes and pretended to sleep. Anyone with a discerning eye can see the huge gap between father and son. The father chatters endlessly and the child turns a deaf ear to it. From the standpoint of parents, educating you is for your own good, how can such an old child not be sensible? The child did not care, and the old sermons were annoying to death. What was supposed to be the most intimate family relationship, but lived as if they didn't understand each other. Such examples are not uncommon: such as, You don't like this major at all, but your parents advise you to have a bright future. You really don't want to get married, and your family advises you to find someone similar to marry. You don't want a second child at all, and your family advises you to "have another one, another one". Because of the different values, no one can convince each other. In fact, the three values are the furthest distance between people. The three values are different, even if they live together under the same roof, they will not speculate for more than a word; the three values are the same, even if they are thousands of miles apart, they are like sitting opposite each other. If people with different values have to force each other, it is a disaster, regardless of family affection, friendship, or love. Allow other people's values to be different from their own Singer Li Ronghao once criticized some netizens on the Internet. On the stage of "The Voice of China", Li Ronghao chose an online song for the students, called "your pub is closed for me", but he was bombarded by netizens. Most netizens commented: Internet songs are difficult to reach the level of elegance. They are simply too low. According to the usual practice, when stars are criticized by netizens, they will immediately issue a statement to apologize. However, Li Ronghao believes that this is wrong and should not negate a work at will just because he likes it. He posted a hard bar on Weibo: Do not use your values to ask the world, you do not like things, to allow others to like. You're absolutely right. Too many people in life ask others in the name of "three values". You're not doing it right. You have to do it my way. They use their own shallow values to evaluate the principles of others, and use their own single values to correct other people's way of doing things. As everyone knows, the three values are the standard of conduct that constrains oneself, not the moral requirement of kidnapping others. The world is rich and can accommodate many different ideas, as long as it doesn't hurt others, it doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong. Only vulnerable people will ask others to agree with their own values. Only narrow-minded people will ask others with their own single values. And strong people, broad people, will use a tolerant state of mind, allow each kind of different to exist. I used to chat with a friend who came back from abroad. He said that in foreign countries, beggars are also a way of life, they do not want to stay in the office as a tool, do not have too much material desire, and yearn for a free and unrestrained life. Even so, they have dignity. You don't have to give, but you can't disrespect it. In this world, there are too many ways of life that we can't understand, not for mutual recognition, but for mutual respect. The philosopher Hegel said: "existence is reasonable." Each person's different values constitute this rich world. If everyone were uniform, the world would be too boring. What we need to do is to eliminate inherent prejudices, accommodate different views, and allow others to be different from ourselves. The highest self-cultivation is to respect other people's values. In Ode to Joy, Quxiao gauze and Dr. Zhao were originally an unrelated couple. Dr. Zhao is highly educated and professional, not only interested in reading, but also elegant in interest, with the arrogance of intellectuals. By contrast, Quxiao is more like the bad students in the class who don't like to study. Once, when they played cards with Andy and Mr. Wei, Andy teased Mr. Wei: "Dear Lady Macbeth, your hands are not clean either." QuXiao gauze didn't understand the allusions of Macbeth, so he laughed at Boss Wei. Dr. Zhao's face changed at that time, and his upbringing made him unable to accept that his girlfriend was not only uneducated but also impolite. It even broke up at one point, but in the end, the feelings for the girlfriend overcame the gap between the two. He likes QuXiao gauze precisely because her ancient spirit is strange and unreasonable, but her aura is also accompanied by a low level of education and unrestrained speech. He can't just like the good side of her and reject the other side of her. In the end, he chose to accept the other side of QuXiao gauze and achieved a "love story". There are no two identical leaves in this world, and there is no identical values in this world. If there is, it is another term for tolerance, understanding, respect and appreciation. I have heard a saying that is very reasonable: "I understand that the three values are the same, not that your thoughts, actions and life are the same, but that you are serious and still willing to listen to my nonsense. I have always been traditional, but I can still appreciate your maverick." You can disagree with people and things you can't understand, but you need respect. Respecting other people's values and tolerating their differences is not only a kind of EQ, but also a kind of self-cultivation. I have heard a very reasonable saying: "although the three values are different, different world outlook values do not mean who is high and who is low. Mutual respect is to reflect a person's self-cultivation. Even if I don't agree with you, I can understand different values." The world is full of differences, but respect and understanding make the world colorful and allow everyone to coexist. Respect for other people's values, is a pattern, to understand the difficulties of others, is a kind of kindness. People who have seen the vast world know how to respect each other's differences. If the three values are different, there is no need for forced integration; without accusation, learn to respect. Spend the rest of your life with people who respect you and distance yourself from people who don't understand you. To share with you.

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