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The biggest mistake in life is to miss.
"the biggest mistake in life is to miss." The biggest mistake in communication between people is that there is always time in the future. Time, non-stop, quietly, secretly passed. Everyone is equal in front of time, it will not stay for any regret and regret, but will only forge ahead. It's always easy not to cherish it when we have it, and we don't wake up until we really lose it, but it's too late. A wise man told us a long time ago: "there is only one time that is most important, and that is now. It's important because it's the only time we can make a difference. " If you want to live a good life and leave no regrets, you must first see the following four points. Another day = Wednesday If you miss some feelings, you will no longer miss them. I once saw a micro movie "another day", which touched people deeply. Friends invited to climb the mountain, "another day." My girlfriend asked me to go to the movies together. "I'm going to work tomorrow. I'm exhausted. Some other day." Mother called home to have a look, "recently busy, another day" …... As a result, another day became a distant future, so that friendship, love, family affection gradually drifted away. When I think of it after I am busy, it is difficult for my friends to get together again when they have gone abroad. My former girlfriend and myself have been going their separate ways. The old mother who has been looking through the calendar and waiting for her to come home is already white-haired. In life, too many things are arranged in "another day". "I'll talk to you later." "get together again another day." "We'll talk about it another time." …… What day is "another day"? "another day" must be a very busy day. We always feel that there is still a long time to squander in life, but we do not know that it is not easy to meet the vast sea of people. Everyone and every love that appears in our lives is worth waiting for and protecting carefully. Haruki Murakami said: "with a perfunctory, insipid attitude, how can you expect to have an interesting life?" Do what you want to do immediately while you are young, while the time is right, and make an appointment with the person you want to see. "another day" might as well take advantage of "now". Only when the feelings are strung together, can the feelings be stronger. Only when you know how to cherish your time can you reap the best feedback from time. Next time = 32 For some people, missing is a lifetime. Contemporary poet Yu Guangzhong wrote a tearful poem: "the next time you pass by, there will be no one in the world." We all thought that the person we wanted to see was always there, but the world was changeable, and that person would not necessarily stand in the same place waiting for you. I once saw a girl confiding on the Internet that she had made a very good friend in high school. The two were closer than their sisters, got up early to memorize English words on the playground, went to the snack bar to buy ice cream, hid in bed after lights out at night, and did their homework with a flashlight. It's just that later, two people were admitted to different universities, one in the south and the other in the north of the sea. Although they contacted frequently by telephone, they often said that they would get together when they went home during the holidays. However, until three years after graduation, the two met accidentally in the hospital in their hometown, because the girl was in a hurry to register her sick mother, and they only had a few pleasantries. The girl remembers clearly that she said to her good friend: "next time when we are free, let's go out for milk tea!" The good friend nodded her head with bright eyes, and the girl quickly turned around and was busy going through the formalities for her mother. But when the girl's mother got better and was discharged from the hospital, the girl did not contact her friends immediately and kept thinking about it next time. But about three months later, an obituary suddenly appeared in the classmate group. The girl opened it and found that her good friend had died. The girl immediately burst into tears, and before she could catch up with her friends, she would never see her lively and smiling friend again. It turned out that the good friend the girl saw in the hospital was terminally ill, and the girl did not notice her bony condition because she was worried about her mother's illness. More than ten years have passed, and whenever the girl thinks of her best friend, she regrets it. If only her mother had gone to see her immediately when she was discharged from the hospital. At least, the girl will not let it go for so many years, nor will she miss the opportunity to meet the two. Which time is "next time"? "next time" must be a very distant time. Less complaints and regrets, more cherish and gratitude. Don't say "next time" again, take advantage of the present for those you want to see. Writer Liu Xinwu wrote in Violet dedicated to Destiny: "A life with a little flaw and a little regret is a life with taste; a fate with a little weirdness and a little risk is an interesting fate." Life is short and there are all kinds of regrets. Although we can't fight it, we can minimize our regrets. Be a person who knows how to cherish, take time seriously, treat everyone around you seriously. Even if the farewell ends sometimes, but in this life, to be able to be kind to each other when we meet and not to regret when we are apart is the best way to achieve each other. Go meet the person you want to meet, right now. After that = 13 months There are times when I can never go back when I miss it. "when I get rich, I'll build two private villas, one for people and one for raising pigs!" "when I get rich, I'll buy two BMWs, one in the front, one in the back, and I'll ride a bike in the middle!" These seemingly teasing network jokes, let us in a smile, feel the yearning for the future, but can not cover up the uncertainty. From the moment on, it will be our "future", but it is impossible to go back to the past. There is a problem with Zhihu: "is there someone in your heart that you regret?" Unexpectedly, there are more than 11000 answers to this question, and in the minds of many people, there is a person who will never meet again but is difficult to forget. In one of the most popular anonymous responses, netizens said that his youth was full of his shadow. Obviously people of the same age, this person sees things more thoroughly than netizens, and teaches netizens to look at the future with a long-term vision, to deal with the world with a calm and calm attitude, and to enhance the pattern and vision of netizens. However, they went farther and farther in their respective directions. Netizens said they had tried to retain him, but the distance made them farther and farther away. Although netizens said: "I am always looking forward to tomorrow and the future."But it is clear in my heart that there is no more between them. It's just that life comes and goes, but the days to come are not long. When is "in the future"? "the future" must be a very important time. Don't pin all your hopes on the "future". Those you are looking for try to get in touch with each other. Only by action can you see each other again. After all, there are some times that you can never go back. Think of a sentence: "A lot of things are like this, there will be results, but there may not be a future." How uncertain it is in the future, how uncertain will be in life, seize every moment of the moment, so that it will not leave an unforgettable peace in the future. See you later = cherish The rest of your life is not long, please cherish the present Time is the fairest existence in the universe. Each of us has 24 hours a day, unbiased and impartial. In the TV series "Beizu Nanyuan," Feng Xi, one of the female masters, fell in love with her postdoctoral boyfriend Li Xiang for ten years and has been willing to take care of him. However, Li Xiang did not know how to cherish Feng Xi. Feng Xi wanted to chat with him, but Li Xiang said perfunctorily that he would wait for a while, regardless of Feng Xi's eager eyes. Although Feng Xi is always tolerant and accommodating, her boyfriend takes his efforts less and less seriously. Later, my boyfriend got the opportunity to go abroad for further study and went abroad without consulting with himself. Feng Xi, who had been waiting for her boyfriend to come back, soon received a breakup call from her boyfriend. It took Feng Xi a long time to get out of the shadow of being broken up and regain the strength to love and the courage to be loved. After her boyfriend left her, he suddenly realized her good and began to regret that he did not cherish Feng Xi. His careless indifference before has become the deepest trace of hurting her. The British novelist Maugham once said: "because time is fleeting and irreparable, it is the most precious asset in the world." All the lack of cherishing the present time may become a deep regret in the future life. What you want to do, get up immediately and start doing it. If you want to see someone, go and see him now. No one will always wait in place, because the huge hand of time will push us forward together, the rest of life is really not long. The romantic poet Li Bai once said: "the person of heaven and earth is the reverse journey of all things, and the person of time is the passer-by of a hundred generations." Life in the world, in a hurry for a lifetime, time for us, is not a boundless existence, but to cherish the time that belongs to this moment. The writer Su Xin once said: "if you want to see the rising sun, get up early tomorrow; if you want to see the sunset, wait for the evening sunset; if you want to see me, take advantage of now." Focus on the present, and you will find that the most precious things, the most important people, are always by your side. May we cherish our time, not "another day", not "next time", not "later", but "see you later".
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