People with abilities are often "helpless".

Life is like a ship drifting on the sea. The man at the helm is the one in control of his own life. What life looks like depends on your state of mind and your ability. If you have a dream in your heart and encounter setbacks, you will not dare to move forward for the goal in your heart, dare not take action to work hard, and will never be able to live the way you want to be. In this life, the greatest enemy is yourself. Oscar Wilde said in "from the Deep": "once you find one wrong excuse for yourself, you will soon find a hundred more excuses for yourself." In this life, the person who needs to be defeated most is himself. No one's life is plain sailing, all sentient beings are suffering, only by themselves. Difficulties are like springs. If you are strong, it is weak, and if you are weak, it is strong. If you run when you see a spring, you are doomed to mediocrity in your life. Relying on others will stop you from growing up. In the TV series "superfluous son-in-law", Su Wenxing belongs to the son of the second husband of the Su family and is the only male in the family. He only knows a little about the way of doing business, he doesn't have any skills, and he always gets into trouble. Every time he encountered a problem, he hid behind his father and relied on his family to solve the mess he had left behind. Even if you are in your thirties, you can't be on your own. It was because Su Wenxing was always used to relying on his family that he stopped growing up. When a person is always dependent on others, he will never get exercise in his heart. If you always feel that someone will help you instead of relying on your own efforts, you will gradually lose the ability to be independent. Over time, you will develop a dependent personality. Excessive dependence will slow down a person's growth. Excessive dependence will make people hesitant, timid and afraid to face difficulties in the face of their own decisions. I would rather stand still in the predicament and wait for rescue than find a way on my own. If you rely on others, you will lack the courage to face difficult problems and magnify your own shortcomings infinitely, but it is difficult to find your own advantages. In the case of extreme inferiority and conceit, slowly become a cowardly person. Sometimes a man's failure is not because of how powerful the enemy is, but because he has lost to himself. Life is more secure if you rely on yourself. Goethe once said: "although we can grow up under the protection of our parents and relatives, rely on our brothers and friends, and be happy with our loved ones with the help of making friends. But in any case, in the final analysis, human beings still rely on themselves. " Life has a long way to go, there is always a time when you face difficulties by yourself. Isolated and helpless, the best to rely on is yourself. When you actually experience something, you will grow up. Over a long period of time, in the face of social reality, there is always a set of ways to deal with the world. On the road of life, the best way for a person to rely on is to rely on himself. Those who love us will not be around all the time, we must learn to be independent and strong after all. When you are alive, the way you walk out on your own is safer and more secure. At least in the face of the future, do not be afraid. No matter how difficult it is, please learn to rely on yourself and exercise yourself more. To do whatever you want to do and be yourself. Believe that there is no other way. All the difficulties experienced will become a lamp to illuminate the road ahead. We must learn to reconcile with ourselves, turn enemies into friends, and move forward without hesitation. Those who learn to rely on themselves will become stronger and stronger. Will not have fear in the face of difficulties, will be more confident to defeat difficulties and achieve a better life. People who are "helpless" are more likely to succeed Roman Roland said: "Life is hard, and for those who are not willing to be mediocre and mundane, it is a day-and-night struggle, often miserable, without brilliance, without happiness, in the struggle of loneliness and silence, they can only rely on themselves." The American writer Helen Keller suffered a serious illness when she was young, which made her lose her sight and hearing, and her life was plunged into darkness. I thought she would admit defeat to fate, but she didn 't. by coincidence, her mentor gave her new hope. From then on, Helen Keller "communicated" with the outside world with a sense of touch, practicing pronunciation and learning words. She accomplished what most people thought impossible by her own efforts, and from then on, the light appeared again in her world. People who are "helpless" are more likely to succeed. When a person loses support, he can only rely on his own strength to change his destiny. Because, there is no dependence, there is no way out, freedom to rely on their own efforts, rely on their own to strive for a tomorrow. People live in the world, even if they have shoulders to rely on, but also learn to become "helpless" people, rely on their own to fight for a tomorrow. On the road of life, there is no rely on, can only rely on their own efforts, will be able to go all out to achieve self-worth. If you rely on mountains, you can fall, but everyone can run. Only rely on their own time, will not worry about who left who will affect the status quo, never rely on, why worry about the other party's departure. People who have the ability are often "helpless". Capable people never pin their hopes on others. But firmly grasp the fate in their own hands, no matter the wind and rain, but also be able to face it bravely. When people are most helpless, they will push themselves hard, and their beliefs will become stronger and stronger. Only when there is no one to rely on can we have the strength and confidence to ride the wind and waves and reverse the gear of fate in the face of adversity. On the road of life, ups and downs are normal. Life is full of challenges. If you bear the pressure, you will have the motivation to move forward. Everything is difficult at the beginning, but if you get through it, there will always be a day to get ahead.

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