Make sure your moments are all visible.

Make sure your moments are all visible.

Only by opening the moments can we have more opportunities to be understood.

since WeChat moments can be visible for three days, some friends seem to have evaporated from Wechat. No photos, no copywriting. Click on the picture and see only a horizontal bar. It's on each other's friend list. But become the most familiar stranger because of "visible for three days". There is no way to know how you are doing, and I don't know where to start the topic. So set your moments to be fully visible. I have a dinner appointment with my good friend Ari at the weekend. The food and dishes are exquisite and elegant. Ari took a lot of pictures with interest. Just when I thought she was going to post on moments, I didn't expect her to put her cell phone in her bag. In the face of my doubts, Ari explained that she would not let more than two developments appear in her moments. Click on her moments to see, sure enough, set up for three days to see, only a lonely song to share. "Wechat plus people are too cluttered to reveal too much information about themselves." Ari seemed afraid that I wouldn't believe it, adding, "besides, I don't want people to know me that much." If you set up moments to be visible for three days, there must be no one you like in the Wechat list. This sentence is really true. Because I don't want to be understood and resonated by others, and I don't want to show my life and ideas too much. Too many people choose to lock up their moments for three days. But have you ever thought that you will miss a lot of opportunities to be seen and understood? Colleague Ah Hao partnered with girls from another department during a team building in the company. After the event, the two naturally exchanged contact information. To the surprise of Ah Hao, the girl's circle of friends was graciously set up to be all visible. Ah Hao excitedly shared his new findings with me: She shared her Vegetables Salad last week and may have been losing weight recently. She went for a drink with her friends last night, maybe she was in a bad mood. She goes to the gym after work every day and likes to buy herself flowers. Her favorite wine is long Island iced tea. Bit by bit of records in the moments, let Ah Hao slowly outline the appearance of a girl. On her first date, Ah Hao thoughtfully chose a light food restaurant and avoided the milk tea shop that she had complained about in her moments. Seeing the girl's smile, he knew he had done the right thing. Checking moments is the process of getting to know a person. Yingfeng wrote in "fifteen years of waiting for migratory birds": "Life is like a train. After entering the station, some people will get on the train and some must get off." All the settings in moments are visible, which is actually opening the car door. If one day, we no longer contact, life gradually opened our intersection. Then all the visible moments are a bridge connecting us in the surging tide of life. I once saw a heartfelt remark on Weibo: "No one will click on your profile picture and browse the moments except those who really care about you." I think so. Especially after more people have experienced in adulthood, they can better understand this feeling. The younger sister looked a little nervous when she attended the annual meeting of the company for the first time. Consulted several people, specially bought a slightly grand dress. At the annual meeting, the younger sister dared not laugh loudly and was careful for fear of making any jokes. Recalling the embarrassment at that time, the younger sister herself was a little embarrassed. In fact, no one noticed what clothes she was wearing and whether her words and deeds were inappropriate. It was the boy in the same department who had a crush on her at that time. Noticing that her ankle was worn out by ill-fitting high heels, a band-aid was quietly handed over at the end of the party. The younger sister also sighed with emotion: "only those who like themselves will pay attention to what happens to them." The same is true in moments. We don't want to be judged and interpreted by people we don't know well, but those people don't care at all. And the one who is willing to go through your moments one by one and figure out your little thoughts. But was coldly "visible for three days" outside the door. All the moments are visible, which means that I would like to be understood by you. Whether in interpersonal communication or in love life, sincerity and honesty are the only way. ▽ Haruki Murakami said: "people are born lonely and can not understand each other, the so-called communication is the process of seeking comfort." Only by opening the moments can we have more opportunities to be understood. As Cai Kangyong said: "Let's take a look at our moments. How much we suppress ourselves in order to create a window for others to see. But we don't know the things that we think are childish and boring. It is cute and naive in the eyes of the one you like. " If you don't mind, open your moments: "because I want to know you." One book a week The book is released by authorization.

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