I sincerely hope that all parents in the world can be treated gently by their children.
as the old saying goes: "
the grace of parents, water cannot drown and fire cannot be extinguished.
in life, the most precious quality of a person is gratitude.
with gratitude and filial piety, the family is bound to be happy.
on the contrary, if you raise an ungrateful child, your parents will suffer for the rest of their lives.
as Shakespeare said:
"ungrateful children are more painful than the sharp teeth of poisonous snakes."
the greatest sorrow of a family is that parents give everything but cannot raise grateful children.
it's no use no matter how good it is
parents all want their children to become dragons and phoenixes.
therefore, the most frequently said sentence is: "
you just study hard and you don't need to worry about anything else.
as the old saying goes, "
A man must first establish virtue.
for a child, grades are not everything. Gratitude is the most worthwhile wealth.
without these, no matter how good he is, it will be a disaster for the family.
I have seen such a news that when a senior high school boy Li was doing his homework at home, he was so emotional that he brutally killed his mother with a kitchen knife when he had an altercation with his mother.
after killing his mother, Li did not feel guilty or repentant. Instead of calling the police, he calmly picked up his schoolbag and spent the night with his classmates.
it was only when he went to school the next day that he confessed to the head teacher and turned himself in.
when the police arrived at the scene, the mother had already lost her vital signs.
according to the description of the neighbors in the same district, Li usually has excellent academic performance and is cheerful and enthusiastic.
can be such a very good boy in the eyes of outsiders, just dissatisfied with his mother's discipline can kill him.
he replied carelessly, "No regrets." I don't have to study. I don't have to be so stressed. "
what is the use of such a child, no matter how highly educated he is?
there is an English proverb:
"gratitude is the smallest of virtues, ingratitude is the worst of conduct."
an ungrateful child has long taken his parents' efforts for granted, caring only for his own interests and neglecting his parents' hardships.
he who loses his conscience will suffer all his life.
the disaster of children
it's all the parents' fault
in China, many people believe in the saying:
No matter how poor you are, you can't have a poor education, and no matter how hard you are, you can't suffer your children.
looking at how many parents live frugally, they will also satisfy their children's desire to enjoy big brands.
you can bear hardships and sufferings, but you must not let your children have any pressure on life.
do not realize that too many people are spoiled by this "doting".
as the educator Rousseau once said: "
do you know how to make your child an unfortunate person?
I remember that a few years ago, there was a very popular TV series called Tiger Mom and Cat Dad.
the daughter of the protagonist in the play is 5-year-old Cissy.
since childhood, she has been spoiled as a "little princess" by her grandparents and has become bossy.
whenever he is unhappy, he asks Grandpa to lie on the ground and let her ride as a horse.
when he heard his mother's reproach, he would shout at the dinner table, "I'm going to hit my mother."
refused to sleep and asked her father to kneel down and beg her.
as the old saying goes, there are many unfortunate favorites, but it is difficult for a spoiled child to become a talent.
it can be said that this is all the child's fault, and it is not always the case.
Makarenko, an education expert, once said a classic saying:
"giving everything to children, sacrificing everything, even their own happiness, this is the most terrible gift that parents give to their children."
most of the time, parents' doting is like a kind of "painless amputation". It is they who, in the name of love, brutally cut off their children's ability to be self-reliant.
therefore, children are ungrateful, and most of them are "used to" by their parents themselves.
the more "privileged" the children are, the more "hard and cold" their parents are;
the more "powerful" the children are, the more "humble and pitiful" their parents are.
if you don't want to eat the consequences of your child's selfishness, the only way is to learn to let go.
otherwise, your doting will eventually become a chronic poison that destroys a child and family.
the greatest achievement of a family
is to raise a grateful child
Uncle Han Jiu said:
"not every drop of water can be exchanged for Yongquan, and not every child can repay the kindness of his parents."
the greatest achievement of a family is to raise a grateful child.
actor Huang Xiaoming, no matter how busy he is, takes the time to go back to his hometown to visit his family and grandmother.
so that every time she wants to leave, Grandma will hold Xiaoming's hand reluctantly.
he always said, "Today of our parents is our tomorrow." For parents, the child is the biggest work and the biggest dependence in his life. "
I think this is a person's greatest filial piety.
there is a cloud in the Book of songs:
"Father gives birth to me, mother bows me, caresses me, grows me, takes care of me, goes in and out of my belly. If you want to repay your kindness, Haotian turns a deaf ear to it. "
if a person is not grateful to his parents and even loses his basic self-cultivation, how can he talk about starting a family and prosperity?
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the foundation of the national style lies in the family style, and the foundation of the family style lies in gratitude.
only when children know how to be grateful, all the efforts of their parents will not be wasted, but will be turned into incentives, which will eventually be given back to the family, and then prosper.
gratitude is the foundation of building a family and the foundation of building a family.
people who live in an ungrateful family all their lives, no matter how rich they are, can't be truly happy.
if you can learn to be grateful, even if there is no great wealth, life will be interesting.
A famous saying by Gorky:
"Thanksgiving, life is so extraordinary, there are gems shining in the long river of life, Thanksgiving, life is so rich and colorful, the eternal enthusiasm of life bestowed by all living things."
, I sincerely hope that all parents in the world can be treated gently by their children.
I also hope that all children can put on the wings of gratitude and soar in the sky from now on!