I decided to break up with my perfect boyfriend.

one.

I never thought that Lao Yan would one day become the "perfect boyfriend" in the eyes of our group.

before he fell in love, he always spoke with an air of wanting to be taught a lesson. the messages sent to him were never answered, and he was an hour late for every party.

when I was still laughing at him for deserving to be single, he suddenly came to us with a girl.

Lao Yan probably really likes her so much that she is a completely different person.

in the past, his mobile phone always ran out of battery. After falling in love, he began to look all over the world for portable battery with a battery of less than 50%. He began to respond to messages in seconds, making witty remarks, picking up on time, and so on.

what's even more frightening is that on various festivals, he begins to plausibly say strange things like YSL, Givenchy, Dior and so on, and then I don't understand French or cat's eyes at all.

once I was in an Internet bar with Lao Yan. In the middle of a group fight, his mobile phone alarm clock suddenly rang. Then he dropped the keyboard, turned over and ran out.

later he told me that he would call his girlfriend at that time every day, rain or shine.

at that time, I was convinced that love could turn a rascal into an almost invincible hero.

II.

to my surprise, they ended their relationship in less than three months.

I asked Lao Yan why.

he squinted at me and looked back to the unreasonable rascal: "because I can't be really perfect."

I don't understand this sentence, and I don't understand why Lao Yan likes her so much, but doesn't make any redemption.

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what makes me even more confused is that one day, the girl ran up to me and told me that she wanted to get back together with Lao Yan and asked me what to do.

"isn't that what you said about breaking up?" I asked.

"but I still like him." She stumbled and then told me sadly how much she liked and liked Lao Yan.

"you like him so much, why do you say break up?"

"I was in a very bad mood that day and wanted to go out to play, but suddenly I couldn't find him, and then I felt even worse. Later, when I asked him what he was doing at that time, he said he had something to do and didn't explain anything else. He had never been so cold to me. I thought he didn't like me, so I said he broke up. "

"actually, I didn't really want to break up, but he said," well, then he hung up. "

three.

A few days after the breakup, Lao Yan was busy with a very important project competition and had to hand in his work in three days, but the two main forces suddenly quit because of some quarrel. as the captain, he ran with the pressure of the game, teammates and teachers.

he was so exhausted that he could no longer take care of his girlfriend. "actually, I knew I didn't do a good job, but at that time, I was so tired that I really couldn't explain anything anymore," Yan said. "

I despise him disdainfully, because if I don't like it, I don't like it. Don't use tiredness as an excuse to break up.

but after a long time, when I talked to the girl about it again, she sighed and confessed sadly:

"now that I think about it, I always feel that separation is certain. I was too much at that time. When I was drinking happy tea, he would take an hour by car and wait in line for two hours to buy it for me. When I talk about some Internet celebrity snack, he will bring me blabla after work the next day. "

there are too many similar exaggerations, and Lao Yan can always satisfy girls again and again. Therefore, she inadvertently made more and more demands.

the reason why I am not careful is that Lao Yan looks so perfect that everyone, including girls, forgets, he will be tired, he also needs comfort, and he is just an ordinary person.

is it sad that the perfect boyfriend in our eyes is, in a sense, the product of "making"?

IV.

there is a saying in the mainstream view of love that makes me sad. To the effect that I want my partner to be a perfect hero who is only good to me.

this reminds me of one of the most helpless settings in A Chinese Odyssey-

I have to wear a gold hoop to become a hero on earth, but with a gold hoop, I can't fall in love with anyone, including you.

back to Lao Yan, I think Lao Yan really likes her, so he will step by step back, learn, restrain, and transform himself from a rogue character into a perfect boyfriend in the eyes of others.

because Lao Yan believes that if you are good to someone unconditionally, you can keep the other person behind and maintain a relationship.

A girl's work is also because she subconsciously feels that two people fall in love and should be tolerated unconditionally.

but we are all ordinary people, and we will be sad and lose. We will not instantly evolve from ordinary people to saints just because we have fallen in love.

sometimes we regard love so sacred that we think that only the words unconditional and sacrifice are worthy to measure whether a person loves or not.

but there is nothing great about love. In my eyes, it appears because two ordinary people want to trouble each other and help each other.

so, when everyone wants to be or meet a hero on earth, I want to meet someone who doesn't have to play the role of hero.

playing hooligans can actually be more moving than heroism. Good night.

there is a saying in the mainstream view of love that makes me sad. To the effect that I want my partner to be a perfect hero who is only good to me.

this reminds me of one of the most helpless settings in A Chinese Odyssey-

I have to wear a gold hoop to become a hero on earth, but with a gold hoop, I can't fall in love with anyone, including you.

back to Lao Yan, I think Lao Yan really likes her, so he will step by step back, learn, restrain, and transform himself from a rogue character into a perfect boyfriend in the eyes of others.

because Lao Yan believes that if you are good to someone unconditionally, you can keep the other person behind and maintain a relationship.

A girl's work is also because she subconsciously feels that two people fall in love and should be tolerated unconditionally.

but we are all ordinary people, and we will be sad and lose. We will not instantly evolve from ordinary people to saints just because we have fallen in love.

sometimes we regard love so sacred that we think that only the words unconditional and sacrifice are worthy to measure whether a person loves or not.

but there is nothing great about love. In my eyes, it appears because two ordinary people want to trouble each other and help each other.

so, when everyone wants to be or meet a hero on earth, I want to meet someone who doesn't have to play the role of hero.

playing hooligans can actually be more moving than heroism. Good night.