How to deal with people who don't like you

have read such a story. Ronald K. Huo Flynn ranks among the top three in the IQ rankings in the United States. But this genius, with an IQ of 164, has achieved nothing and lives in the cheapest rented housing. Ronald once revealed the reasons for his miserable life: In primary school, a girl invited the whole class to her house to open a party. He arrived excitedly, and as soon as the girl opened the door to see him, she said to him in disgust, "I didn't expect you to come." The remark stung him. He found himself unlikable. Since then, Ronald was mired in the quagmire of "others don't like him" and didn't come out until the age of 55. Think of a passage that Mo Yan said in "how to treat people who don't like you": "A person, weary and weary of living in this world, should live for those who like him. This is the best attitude. Don't lose your happiness to those who don't like you, and then forget your happiness to those who like you. " Life is not easy. Don't let those who don't like you waste your life. The best way to deal with people who don't like you is to be impolite, unflattering, and indifferent. You are welcome While recording the son of tomorrow, Song Dandan was asked how to control some emotions such as anger and sadness over the years. Song Dandan did not think about it and replied directly, "I don't control it." She added: "for example, if someone speaks ill of me behind my back, I will tell him directly: I know you are talking about me behind my back, and what you said is wrong. If you think there is something wrong with me, please tell me directly; talk about me behind my back, I think you are very bad. If a person really hurts you, no matter how strong he is or how weak you are, you must tell him directly that you should vent the matter instead of holding it in your heart. " People who live clearly will never embarrass themselves because others don't like them. They have the courage to be hated and the ability to say "no" to them. They know that not all softness and compromise can be exchanged for the kindness of others. Venus, a dancer, once revealed a similar experience on the show. When her son was at school, a classmate didn't like him, so he said sarcastically, "your mother is a man." If ordinary people hear such an attack, they will be either angry or self-abased. Unexpectedly, her son responded arrogantly and calmly: "so what!" It's none of your business! " I remember what Yu Hua said: "when we treat the world fiercely, the world suddenly becomes gentle." When it's time to turn your face, you have to turn your face. For people with bad intentions, there is no need to indulge, let alone be polite. Be a difficult person for the rest of your life. Don't treat every heart badly, and don't pander to every indifference. Be thankless I saw a very vivid picture on the Internet: This picture, called "some smiles, is at the expense of hurting yourself." In the picture, a complete watermelon has to be cut open in order to get a smile. Therefore, every time a smile shows people, it is accompanied by a wound. There is no shortage of such people in life who not only please others, but also lose their original appearance. In Charlotte's annoyance, Charlotte knows very well that Qiuya doesn't like her and tries every means to please her. Intimidate Qiu Ya's deskmate to "get the moon first". "plagiarize" Park Shu and Xu Wei's songs and express their love to Qiuya Unloaded the wheels of Qiuya's bike, took the money to buy soda for Qiuya to drink, and sent her home on the grounds that the car broke down. In the end, Charlotte not only did not get Qiu Ya's sincere love, but became a joke in the eyes of others. As Mr Mo Yan said: "deliberately to be liked by others, the damage can only be self-dignity. In exchange for condescending, the other party will only become more condescending and bossy. " People who don't have you in their eyes, why take it to heart. For the rest of your life, don't give in to people who don't like you. Don't pander to people who don't see you in their eyes. And you don't have to distort yourself in order to please others. I like what Li Xueqin said very much: "I want to say to those who don't like me, I don't like you either." Allow others not to like yourself, but also allow yourself not to like others. A thankless life is more wanton free and easy. I don't care. A very famous painter wants to paint a picture that everyone loves. He took his paintings to the street for display, and put a pen with a line of text: "if you think there is something wrong with this painting, please mark it in the picture." When he took back the painting in the evening, he found that the whole painting was covered with marks. He was very frustrated when he looked at the various shortcomings pointed out. The next day, the painter decided to find out what people like in a different way. So he drew a new picture to display, but this time, he asked the viewer to mark the place where he thought the painting was good. As a result, places that have been picky have been marked with praise. He could not help feeling: "it turns out that no matter what I do, some people will like it and some people don't like it, so there's no need to care too much." Life is not easy, learn not to care, you will feel much better. Yu Guangzhong, a famous scholar, was famous for his poem "homesickness". However, Li ao wrote a "flattering poem" to criticize Yu Guangzhong for his low level and openly called him a "liar" in the program. At that time, many readers felt aggrieved for Mr. Yu and hoped that he would come forward to fight back, but he never expressed his position. Until many years later, when Yu Lao was interviewed by host Cao Kefan, he was asked about the matter. He only said shallowly: "he has been scolding me, it shows that he can not live without me in his world; I ignore him, it shows that I can do without him in my world." I have heard the saying, "you can never wake up a person who pretends to sleep." You can never change a person who is prejudiced against you. People who don't like you, no matter how well you do, will always find fault with you and make you uncomfortable. What you have to do is not to take people who don't like you seriously and not to waste your energy on people who pretend to sleep. As Mr Zhou Guoping said: "in a certain type of person, it is not worth wasting any feelings, not even angry ones." ▽ Some people say that there are only three kinds of people in the world: those who like you, those who don't like you and those who don't like you.Stranger. The stupidest thing is to go to someone you don't like and ask why. A man has a thousand faces, but a heart has a thousand changes. For some people, the more you explain, the more powerless you appear. And for those who really care about you, they will understand without explanation. " " May you take the initiative to block out the people and things that consume you and may all you see be joy.

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