No one is the main role in life, the most worthy of Thanksgiving and cherish, only themselves.
qingclass666 Recently, former Hong Kong sister Zhu Lingling celebrated her 63rd birthday and her daughter-in-law Guo Jingjing posted a photo of her mother-in-law celebrating her birthday on a social platform. In the photo, Guo Jingjing stooped and stood behind her mother-in-law, each with a flower and a very close relationship. However, compared with the beauty of Zhu Lingling's Hong Kong sister, Guo Jingjing, who is 24 years old, is slightly worse-looking, and many people complain that Guo Jingjing is even older. It is too narrow to judge an Olympic champion simply by his appearance. What's more, Zhu Lingling was born as a sister in Hong Kong, and her temperament is indeed beyond ordinary people. But in fact, if you take a closer look, you will find that the two have a lot of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The facial features are dignified and dignified, and the nose and eyes are somewhat similar, but the real similarity is the independence and freedom in their bones. There are so many rich and powerful families, but only this pair of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can not be trapped. In particular, her mother-in-law, Zhu Lingling, not only created a precedent for Sister Hong Kong to marry a rich man, but also broke the image of a housewife who had always been patient with a rich wife, and really lived the way she expected. In 1958, Zhu Lingling was born into a lumber merchant in Myanmar. With a rich family and intelligent talents, Zhu Lingling is proficient in Burmese, Mandarin, Cantonese, English and other languages. And it has always been high achiever, the middle school is the Hong Kong International School, and studied as a preparatory course at King George V School, and was recommended to study in the UK at the age of 16. At that time, Zhu Lingling, who spoke elegantly and gracefully, was the focus everywhere. At the age of 18, as soon as she stood at the Sister Hong Kong campaign, she captured the attention of the public. Won the champion of "Miss Hong Kong" and "most photogenic Miss" in one fell swoop! And along with Leslie Cheung, Lin Qingxia and Michelle Reis, she was selected as the "four most wonderful things in Hong Kong". Among the admirers, the Hong Kong businessman Timothy Fok is the craziest. As soon as the award ceremony ended, a huge basket of flowers was immediately presented: "Miss Zhu is really the champion of 'Sister Hong Kong' and her demeanor is fascinating." In 1984, Zhu Lingling participated in filming the TV series "Mary Guan 77". In order to create a momentum, the crew held a press conference for her. Zhu Lingling was so excited that she didn't sleep well all night, but she didn't think about it. When she rushed to the scene the next day, the car broke down halfway. At that time, Fok Zhen-ting rushed to the TV station to congratulate Zhu Lingling, but did not see her, so he went along the road to find her, which solved the urgent needs of Zhu Lingling. When the two hurried to the scene of the press conference, facing the media, Timothy Fok did not avoid it, but carefully protected Zhu Lingling all the way through the crowded crowd. Although the hero saves the United States is old-fashioned, but touched Zhu Lingling's unfamiliar girl's heart. Later, during the shooting, Fok Zhen-ting visited the class every day and placed a bouquet of fresh roses on her dresser. Flowers. At that time, every bouquet of Hong Kong roses had to be imported from Southeast Asia. It can be seen that Timothy Fok also used his heart. Not only that, Huo Zhen-ting, who was busy with business, sat quite patiently watching Zhu Lingling act, and after every shot, he would be the first to applaud. After a play was filmed, their love also came to fruition. However, in the face of Huo Zhenting's marriage proposal, Zhu Mu flatly refused: "you must be careful! A big boss like him is ten years older than you, and he can't be sincere to you. He just sees you young and beautiful and wants to treat you as a plaything. " In the face of doubt, Timothy Fok vowed: "Mama Zhu, you can rest assured that I will make your daughter happy all her life. I will love her as much as I am by your side." But what really made his mother Zhu compromise was his daughter's insistence: "Mom, he really loves me, and I love him, too. Age is not a problem. We will be very happy." The wedding was a sensation. The betrothal gift alone gave the Zhu family 10 million Hong Kong dollars. The banquet was hosted at 360 tables, and the guests were either rich or expensive. Governor MacLehose and Governor Jose Garcia Leandro all went to congratulate them. However, when Zhu Lingling thought she wanted to enter a happy life with Prince Charming, she ushered in a feather of life. After marriage, the lives of the two are very different. Fok Chen-ting only went to a high-end restaurant to eat, and even if Zhu Lingling recommended some snacks to him and hoped to have a taste together, the other party was not interested. The most important thing is that Zhu Lingling, who was overwhelmed by the rules of the Huo family, once proposed a separation to Fok Zhen-ting, which was angrily reprimanded by her husband, who always regarded her father as an idol. I can't help but chill at the thought of being locked up in a mansion for the rest of my life. Later, Timothy Fok was elected as a member of the Olympic Council of Asia (OCA). In order to attend the celebration banquet, Zhu Lingling specially asked the housekeeper to select several pieces of jewelry. But when she was ready to wear it, the housekeeper handed over a registration form, asking her to write down in detail when she borrowed what jewelry at home, and to indicate the time of return. As the hostess of the Huo family, she was controlled by family rules and did not even have the right to control a piece of jewelry. Zhu Lingling immediately returned the jewelry. I was so angry that I almost didn't go to the party. After that, Zhu Lingling's grievances had not yet been resolved, and the estrangement between the two became deeper and deeper because Timothy Fok became even busier as a member. To paraphrase Zhang ailing, marriage is like a gorgeous robe covered with lice. From ordinary families to wealthy families, they can't escape this sentence. It's just that some women only have gorgeous robes in their eyes, but they can't or don't want to see the lice on them, while some women can't stand being gnawed by lice for a lifetime. Zhu Lingling is the latter. Unwilling to continue to indulge in marital sadness, Zhu Lingling agreed with her sister to open a jewelry store in the UK. However, on the second day of opening, something went wrong. Zhu Lingling was immediately urgently recalled to the country by Timothy Fok, and the family sat in the hall with a straight face, ready to try her in court. Fok Zhen-ting finally announced: the woman of the Fok family is not allowed to go out to open a shop! In this way, Zhu Lingling, who was unwilling to continue to be a canary, resolutely moved away from the Huo family. Although there are many peach blossoms in the rich family, Zhu Lingling is unwilling to bear it. She married Timothy Fok because of love, but now the love is no longer there, and the huge Huo mansion is no longer her place to return. So, regardless of the Huo family, Zhu Lingling decided to divorce and leave the house. This kind of determination not only surprised the Huo family, but also made another man feel respect. He was Luo Kangrui, who fell in love with Zhu Lingling for many years. In fact, when Zhu Lingling's marriage hit the rocks, she had already had sex with Luo Kangrui.We've met several times. It was only when we met Zhu Lingling again many years later that Luo Kangrui found that his favorite girl had not changed. When Luo Kangrui learned that Zhu Lingling had married Timothy Fok, she began to work hard to leave Hong Kong to do business in Shanghai, developing the famous Shanghai Xintiandi and rising rapidly in the mainland. In 2005, Luo Kangrui was worth tens of billions of dollars, and his strength was close to that of the Huo family. He was firmly ranked 191 on the 2020 Hurun Global Real Estate Rich list and was awarded the Grand Bauhinia Medal by the Hong Kong SAR Government. Unlike the Huo family who borrowed jewelry, on the day of Zhu Lingling's remarriage, Luo Kangrui declared her identity to the Hong Kong Stock Exchange. This means that all the future property of Luo Kangrui will be the property of him and Zhu Lingling after marriage. After that, Zhu Lingling will be at the helm of the Luo family alongside him. This marriage gives Zhu Lingling full freedom and respect. Zhu Lingling regained her hobby of photography and held a photography exhibition. As honorary president of Huiyan Yaji, she works with members to do charity. Study all over the world and constantly expand your horizons. Attend the important meetings of the company and be on your own. It can be said that Zhu Lingling chose not another marriage, but another kind of life that can live out her self-worth. Two different marriages, however, follow Zhu Lingling's consistent view of choosing a mate, that is, to choose the person you love and live the life you want. Although the slogan of women's independence has only been shouted out gradually in recent years. But Zhu Lingling's concept of self-reliance ahead of the times is a gene engraved in her bones, not only for herself, but also for others. She was trapped by a wealthy family, but she gave more freedom and support to her daughter-in-law Guo Jingjing, who was also married into a wealthy family. This made Guo Jingjing express her love to her mother-in-law many times, thanking her for cultivating many excellent qualities of Huo Qigang. Unlike Xiang, the mother-in-law of a wealthy family, Zhu Lingling has never been a spokeswoman for Guo Jingjing and his wife. After Guo Jingjing gave birth to a child, the Hong Kong media asked Zhu Lingling how many Guo Jingjing would have, but Zhu Lingling blocked her from going back: "they know best about this, and they make their own decisions, but taking care of children is very hard, and they have to know the responsibility." At that time, Guo Jingjing decided to move out of the Huo family's 2.5 billion mansion, and the media speculated that she was abandoned by the rich and powerful. Only Zhu Lingling knew that she did not want her child to get involved in family disputes prematurely and wanted to cultivate her children's values of self-reliance and independence. When Zhu Lingling is usually with her friends, she always dresses like jewelry and never loses. But when she is with daughter-in-law Guo Jingjing, she dresses very elegantly and simply, and doesn't want to steal the limelight of Guo Jingjing. As a woman, Zhu Lingling knows what Guo Jingjing cares about. she has always supported her in her career, and has turned into Guo Jingjing's fan sister many times in public: "Guo Jingjing is a hundred points in her mind." she didn't waste her childhood and trained hard to achieve success. and very gentle. " During this trip to the Tokyo Olympic Games, Huo Qigang was able to generously take care of the children, which probably had something to do with the education of this enlightened mother-in-law. To tell you the truth, many actresses who marry rich families cannot ask for such a rich mother-in-law. Throughout her life, Zhu Lingling has lived up to her high starting point. Unlike many beautiful Hong Kong stars who are trapped by love, although she is obsessed with love, she rarely stays awake. While loving others, she always insists on her own feelings. Moreover, whether it is the beginning of love at the age of 18 or divorce at the age of 50, Zhu Lingling always adheres to the concept of choosing a mate upward. In fact, true independence does not conflict with the pursuit of better men. After all, only by standing at a certain height will you not let yourself fall into the mud after marriage. What's more, she has never been willing to be a rich family vase, but in order to match the rich family, she has been trying to become a better herself. In her old age, she did not meddle too much in the lives of her children, stayed away from right and wrong, kept a low profile, focused on herself, and enjoyed unfettered freedom. Everyone is born a lonely individual, we are looking for another company, all the way to find all the way lost, or finally have to wait for their own side of the quiet land, a piece of countryside. So as Keigo Higano said, your task is to cherish your own life, and cherish it more than ever before. Zhu Lingling has walked such a long way and seen so many people in her life, but she has always known that no one is the main role in life, and she is the only one who is most grateful and cherished. Perhaps this is why there are so many rich wives, and Zhu Lingling is the only one who makes people fall to the ground.
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