May you dare to love and hate, sober and independent, and live for yourself.
recently, the hit drama "the sons and daughters of the Qiao Family" has finally come to an end. From the beginning of the broadcast to the finale, viewers are either angry or on the way to anger. The misfortune and shadow of the original family and the shocking divorce have to make people sigh. # Qiao's children are the Chinese version of the top floor # . Especially Qiao Simei's love line, from the whole point of view, it makes people so angry that they vomit blood. To the delight, Qiao Simi finally! Leave! Marriage! Yes! Qiao Simei offered to divorce and refused to remarry, which made countless audiences cheer and applaud: Qiao Simi, you finally stood up! It can be seen that the audience's sense of the plot is so strong. However, it is no wonder that everyone followed Joe Simi in a hurry. In the play, Joe Simi's "love brain" way of dealing with feelings, there is no bottom line to forgive and pay. Yes, it can really make people vomit a mouthful of old blood. Boundless forgiveness is the original sin of marriage. Qiao Simei, simple and fearless, straightforward and hot-tempered, loves beauty from an early age and has proper facial control. When he inadvertently ran into Qi Chenggang in the street, he was completely fallen, and just to see him, he went to Tibet alone to pursue love bravely. But Qi Chenggang is an embroidered pillow, and he was directly dismissed in the army because of the problem of "work style." After getting married with Qiao Simi, she lived in Qiao's house without guilt and became a son-in-law. The nightmare of this marriage begins. After marriage, Qiao Simi did not get the happiness she wanted, but suffered wave after wave of infidelity and betrayal. During Qiao Simi's pregnancy, Qi Chenggang cheated on a female passenger and was seen by pregnant Qiao Simi when he was ambiguous and intimate with the female passenger at home. Because of the stimulation, Qiao Simei gave birth ahead of time and nearly died. The eldest brother Qiao Yicheng fought for her grievances and tried to teach Qi Chenggang a lesson, but Qiao Simi got down on his knees and begged him to spare Qi Chenggang, saying, "he will change, he will change."... " Qiao Simei is always thinking of Qi Chenggang, no matter what mistakes he makes, he chooses to forgive and tolerate. But Qi Chenggang, not long after, cheated on the shop assistant Meng Guizhi. This time, Meng Guizhi went directly to Qiao Simei's home and begged her to help them both. Qiao Simei was heartbroken, but she was still reluctant to divorce, and even dared not tell her eldest brother. In the end, the Meng family also came to the door to blackmail compensation, but was forced to have no choice but to ask the eldest brother to pay for it. Qiao Simei did not understand this relationship at all, thinking that his tolerance and forgiveness would lead to Qi Chenggang's repentance, but he did not realize that it only aggravated Qi Chenggang's injury. Qiao Simei risked her life to take care of Qi Chenggang, who was infected with SARS, and even wrote a suicide note. But after looking at Qi Chenggang's mobile phone, I knew that he was infected with SARS on the way to Meng Guizhi without telling everyone. Qiao Simei loved him so much that he was willing to die for him, but without repentance, he went to the other woman behind her back and cheated again and again. Seeing this, the uncle was really speechless and wanted the scum man to repent, just like a fantasy. Qiao Simei, once naive, fearless and stubborn, was completely hurt by Qi Chenggang. Fortunately, after waking up, Qiao Simi decided to turn around and leave Qi Chenggang. "Qi Chenggang, I've been with you again and again. Do you still want to live with me? But I don't want to live with you. " Some people are like this, always thinking that they can please each other if they are full of heart and heart and infinite tolerance. Little do you realize that love is not an equal exchange. Blind self-moving, love as the premise to forgive magnanimity, in exchange for each other's understanding and change of mind. It will only drive yourself crazy and aggravate the demise of the marriage. The lack of self-worth is the thunder buried in marriage. Happy marriages are the same, but unhappy marriages are different. Some people want to exchange forgiveness for the long-term marriage, while others want to maintain the stability of the marriage with grievances. In the popular variety show "the Man who does housework", watching the mode of Nie Yuan and Qin Ziyue getting along with this couple, it is really suffocating! First of all, as soon as the program began to broadcast, we heard his voice before we saw him. I heard Nie Yuan say, "Don't wear this. I'll tell you again, don't be deliberate. The more Qin Zi listens to me!" It turned out that his wife Qin Ziyue dressed up a little in order to look good on the show and put on clothes similar to a bow tie. Causing Nie Yuan's dissatisfaction, he felt that Reality Show was just what it should be, and there was no need to dress up deliberately. As soon as he appeared on the stage, he blamed Qin Ziyue face to face, male chauvinism, as if it foreshadowed the direction of the next plot. Sure enough, Nie Yuan was treated like an emperor in his family, which was a great shock. Nie Yuan lives with Qin Ziyue's parents, and the old couple do almost all the housework. In order for Nie Yuan to get up and eat satisfactorily, Qin's mother specially prepared Nie Yuan's favorite food, which was cooked by Qin's father himself and made a table of hearty breakfast. At 10:00 in the morning, the meal was ready, but Nie Yuan got up. Qin Zi went into the bedroom to call Nie Yuan to get up, but did not wake him up. Qin's mother was worried that the food would get cold, so she covered it with a cover to keep it fresh. At 12:00 in the afternoon, when it was time for lunch, Qin Ziyue called out several times, but Nie Yuan still didn't get up. At 1: 00 in the afternoon, it was obvious that Qin's father was a little unhappy. Qin's mother heated the food several times, and Qin Ziyue was so hungry that he screamed. Finally, when Nie Yuan got up at 2 p.m., the family ate this "breakfast". Qin's father pretended to take a lunch break and didn't even eat. Nie Yuan sat at the dinner table, without the slightest guilt, casually asked, "you didn't eat, did you?" "Don't wait for me next time. There's nothing to wait for. Eat when you're hungry." Although the camera is only a short silhouette of life, Nie Yuan in front of this camera alone shows people the contradictions and grievances of marriage. But do you want to say that this is all Nie Yuan's fault? Yes and no. Nie Yuan is a bit male chauvinist, straight and real, and doesn't know how to take care of women's small thoughts. But it is undeniable that he is a more traditional, upright and responsible man. Responsible for making money to support the family, bear the family's economic expenses, there is a more typical male master outside, the woman master inside the concept. It is not difficult to find that Qin Zi's more serious lack of self-worth and bottomless accommodation is the hidden but naked crisis in this marriage. Nie Yuan won't let Qin ZiThe more deliberately dressed up, even though Qin Zi did not agree with him, he immediately gave in and changed back to convenient home service. Nie Yuan was bedridden. Qin Zi took his family not to eat, but also had to wait for Nie Yuan to get up and eat together. He also defended Nie Yuan for getting up late. "he couldn't sleep at night and didn't have a good rest." When preparing for picking, the staff asked Qin Ziyue to rank "work, husband, daughter" according to importance. Qin Ziyue's answer was "husband first, daughter second, work third". When the staff asked Qin Ziyue to rate her identity, as a wife, she scored 120, as a mother, she scored 59, and as herself, she only scored 30. It can be seen that Qin Ziyue put himself in a low position in his heart. As for Qin Ziyue's attitude, Fu Seoul hit the nail on the head in the program: "she doesn't want to treat him at all." Yes, wayward children are used to, selfish partners are indulged. The more Qin Zi has no self-obedience, it is the source that makes people feel oppressed in it. But Qin Ziyue to Nie Yuan's approach is really without any complaints, willing? It's not. She will secretly complain to the staff that the clothes she is wearing are not bows, just two straps. Say that you are flat When not wearing makeup, Nie Yuan formed a habit and felt that as long as he wore makeup, he attached too much importance to one thing. She would not understand and want to refute it, but she was more afraid that the conflict would affect each other's feelings, so she sought the stability of the marriage through step-by-step compromises and concessions. What feelings fear most is to express their love with humility and to change all the unhappiness in getting along with each other into grievances and bury them in the bottom of their hearts. The excessive consumption of "no self" will only bury numerous minefields for this marriage, and once it breaks out, it will be difficult to recover. Zhang Ziyi was asked on the show, "what have you ever given up for this marriage?" Zhang Ziyi replied without hesitation, "I haven't given up anything for marriage." Wang Feng saw behind the scenes and nodded again and again, "she hasn't given up anything. This is a good thing. It's good enough. You don't need to change anything, just be yourself." Indeed, whether it is the "international chapter" which is full of ambition and tension before marriage, or the "princess chapter" that is gentle and bright after marriage and loves what you love. At every stage, Zhang Ziyi is trying to explain herself, sober and honest, and live a wonderful life. Su Qin once said: the best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and give each other a high-quality lover. A good marriage never makes do with it, nor can it be done with grievances. There is no sunshine or hope in a marriage that loses itself. You have to believe that the other person loves you who knows how to love yourself. Therefore, we should dare to live and find ourselves. The best state of marriage is that you are good, but I am not bad. They are evenly matched and play the game on an equal footing, so that they can cherish each other for a long time. At the end of "the Children of the Qiao Family", Qiao Simi decided to return to Tibet, where the love began, not to pay tribute to the lost love, but to find the former Qiao Simi. May everyone, like Joe Simei, dare to love, dare to end, sober and independent, fulfill themselves and live for themselves.
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