Don't overestimate the relationship of sleep.

many people say that this is an era of "fast food love": After meeting once or twice and chatting for a few hours, we can yell at each other, full of sweet and greasy love words. After having a few meals and watching a few movies, I went from holding hands to hugging. Perhaps many people will think that this is normal, and this is what society looks like now. However, I just want to say that if this is normal, it can only be said that this society is sick. Why do I say this? after reading the following message, you will understand that this is a private message sent to me by a reader in an article I pushed early last month: "Uncle, are you there? I am an 18-year-old girl. I am going to take the college entrance examination soon. At present, I am self-taught at home for some reasons. I went back to school last month to get something and met a boy. Added to the wall of high school confession. Then we got together the next day. I didn't know what to do, and he asked me to go to him. I mistakenly thought I liked him, but he lied to me. " The next day, she sent the following message again: "Uncle, I have insomnia again. I don't know what to do. Is my depression happening again? I'm going to buy a pregnancy test tomorrow. I feel so bad. Do I need sleeping pills? it's too hard for me. Uncle, the boy says he doesn't care about me. What should I do?" For the first time, irresponsible, insomnia, depression, sleeping pills. Every word pierces the heart, every word pierces the heart. 18 years old, flower-like age, love at the beginning of yearning for love, thinking that good feeling is love, love is love, love is a lifetime. However, I can only regret to tell these girls: you really overestimate the relationship of sleep. In the eyes of many men, there is not much difference between a sleep and a meal. When a man has a desire for a woman, he will inevitably approach her. Everything has a gradual process, and that thing in a relationship always requires some foreplay. So he will be nice to you first, treat you to dinner, give you some flowers and gifts, take you to see a movie or play some other project, anyway, the ultimate goal is to hold your hand. To him, the easy prey is like a delicious dinner, but after eating it, the novelty ends here. As the lyrics say, "what you can't get is always in commotion." after getting it, he often won't cherish it any more. If a man approaches you and reveals from the beginning or soon that he wants to have sex with you, you can say that he is honest, but also be careful if he is only interested in your body. If you are only lonely for a moment and need to find someone to keep each other warm, then one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. I have nothing to advise you. But if your demand for a relationship is not just about behavior, then don't be attracted to the man who just wants to sleep with you. Lies are always beautiful, and traps in the name of "love" are always tempting, but if you want to exchange your heart for your heart, wake up early and stay away from those greedy eyes. It sounds right to say that life is too short to have fun in time. But the premise is that you don't let momentary happiness become the source of your pain in the future. A solemn promise can be said to be not true, but the person you have slept with, why do you think he will be responsible to you? You may think that handing over your body to the other person means that you have moved your true feelings, but in fact, in the other person's eyes, you may just think that you just want to have fun. You think that a sleep is the beginning of your relationship, but in each other's eyes, it is the end of the relationship. What the feelings fear most is that you are serious, but the other party is just an ambiguous scene, and forget it in an instant. There is no denying that women are always more likely to be carried away by love, and when they are affectionate, they can agree to any request made by the other party unconditionally, but in the end, they are often the ones who get hurt and cry. When your relationship is not stable enough, and before he is ready to start seriously with you, I advise you to learn to say no first. Never think that if you don't have sex with him, it means you don't trust him, or you don't take the relationship seriously. It is precisely because you have taken it seriously that you have to be extra cautious. Do not be afraid, your refusal will make the other party retreat, the person who really loves you, will really want to sleep with you, but he is also willing to wait for you. Wait until you are both truly and clearly exposed to each other, until you are ready to include each other for the rest of your lives, to taste the sweetness of love, and then to really have each other. At that time, it is the real embrace of the two souls. Finally, I would like the reader who left me a message to read this article, open his heart and regain his love. Oh, good night.

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