Don't overestimate the relationship, don't test the heart.

read and bathe the heart N Nsg1021 Those who are willing are tired, but those who are careless don't care. Have you ever waited for a message from someone? You think you have revealed something between the lines, and even told the other person that you are not feeling well and in a bad mood today, and if ta cares about you, it should give you the response you want. But you wait and wait, pick up the phone and put it down countless times a day, the Wechat dialog box you pay attention to is still silent. As a result, disappointment began to spread. In order to verify the significance of the relationship, and to make up for your imbalance, in the coming days, you will start to test the other person's affection for you in some way. But unfortunately, the results are often not what you want. In the end, the more you expose your sense of need, the more embarrassing and hurting you will be. In fact, a relationship is doomed to go downhill from the day you expect too much of others and feel out of balance. There is a saying that is both helpless and realistic: The most embarrassing thing in the world is that other people don't take you seriously, and you are always delusional and sentimental. You think you're important, but you're nothing. People who really care about you, you don't have to say anything, ta will try to be nice to you. And the person who needs you to try every means to remind, do not doubt, there is only one answer, that is, he does not have you in his heart. At least, I don't care about you so much. We are all adults, and we don't know how to manage our relationships. The only difference is whether we are willing to do that, or whether we think it is worth it. Those who are willing are tired, but those who are careless don't care. Don't waste your time in an unequal relationship. No matter how you try, the result will be the same. A good relationship is very comfortable. More and more people feel that when they reach a certain age, after some things, they must have a kind of self-consciousness, that is, don't take themselves too seriously. What position you occupy in other people's hearts is not what you say, and what you think is even less. Instead of being affectionate, take back those unrealistic expectations and make the relationship as simple as possible. To do this is not to fulfill anyone, but to protect yourself. Only by rectifying our mindset, cherishing ourselves more and paying less attention to others, can we slowly extricate ourselves from entanglements and contradictions. Some people sigh that in this cold world, affection has become a joke. In fact, it is never wrong to know how to cherish it, just leave it to the right person. Some relationships are not suitable in themselves, because each other's values and cognition are not on the same level. The value of this relationship is not nearly as important as you think. And the other person can behave so much because ta saw the truth earlier than you did. A good relationship can be very comfortable. Similarly, how important you are can be felt directly from the interaction between two people. As the saying goes: If you can't feel the love, you just don't like it. At times like this, there's no point in asking why. What you can do is to accept the facts, and then lower expectations and reduce dependence little by little. Don't wait until you are full of heart to find that you are never important, but only occasionally needed, which is the deadliest and most painful blow to a person. Look at the fade away, cherish the unexpected encounter Keigo Higano said: There are two things in the world that cannot be looked directly at, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart. The former hurts the eyes, while the latter is sad. But if we are willing to look at it from a different point of view, we will understand that most of the time, what can hurt you is not the ruthlessness of others, but our own blind persistence. Knowing that you can't do it, you have to have fantasies, boasting that you don't let go. As a result, it not only suffers itself, but also makes it difficult for others. After all, people have to learn to be responsible for themselves. If you dare to start a relationship, you must dare to end it. Even if you don't want to give up, you should always be ready to bear the consequences of your choice. The greatest self-discipline of adults is to see clearly who they are, put themselves in the right position, and manage their emotions well. No matter who you associate with, you are who you are, neither humble nor arrogant, nor afraid nor seeking, which is the basis for building a good relationship. The so-called self-knowledge is clear. If we have the courage to recognize reality, we will not lose ourselves because of anyone. Like this sentence: Don't look at people with your eyes, it's easy to see wrong, and don't listen with your ears, because it may be a lie. You can only feel it with time and heart. That's true. The heart is unfathomable, but time never lies. Really can't be fake, fake, after all, it can't be true. So, don't test the heart, don't overestimate yourself, don't live too tired. The rest of life is too short to let nature take its course. Look down on all the gradual distance, cherish all the unexpected encounters. If you treat me with all your heart, I will live up to it; if you are false, I will never look back. Oh, good night. Read, read, read the original author. Nnsg1021), at nine o'clock in the evening, convey warmth with sound and heal the heart with stories. One book a week is released by authorization.

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