Children who are not filial when they grow up always say these three words.
Children who have no sense of responsibility are doomed to be difficult to move and reap happiness.
GuoXuewenkan There is a Chinese proverb: "look old at the age of three and grow old at the age of seven." By observing the way a child behaves when he is young, we can judge his temper when he grows up. A child who is considerate to his parents from an early age is likely to be a filial son when he grows up. On the contrary, children who are not filial when they grow up have many bad signs when they are young. They will always say the following three words, even if your child says one, be vigilant. Correct it in time so that it will not lead to catastrophe. If you pass the buck In today's society, bear children's news emerges one after another. The children of many families are becoming more and more irresponsible. Achievement-oriented education lowers children's scores in other aspects of life. High score and low ability, in essence, is the sadness caused by shirking responsibility. No matter how good it is for a child who has no sense of responsibility. There is a classic clip in the TV series "Happy Family" that I can't forget for a long time: The father urged the marriage, but the son wanted to sever ties with the whole family. The father wondered why his child, who had been brought up so hard, had to sever ties with him. The son retorted, "I got all my achievements today by myself, and it has nothing to do with you." There are a lot of people around me who are not as capable as me, relying on their parents, while you are just a noodle shop owner. " Ungrateful children turn a blind eye to the efforts and fulfillment of their parents. Often dislike parents for not giving enough, blame parents for being incompetent. Even if you are successful, you will only give yourself a reward. When they were young, when something happened, they would always say, "it's all your fault, it's none of my business" and put off all the responsibility. When they grow up, if something goes wrong, they point the finger at their parents. Liang Qichao said: "only by knowing the hardships of being responsible in life can we know the joys of doing responsibility." Children who have no sense of responsibility are doomed to be difficult to move and reap happiness. Words that contradict your parents As the saying goes, "there is no square without rules." In life, many families have no family rules, insist that everyone is equal, and delude to be friends with their children. However, the reality is often cruel: not only can not gain sincerity, but also lead to children disrespect, or even contradict themselves. A person who contradicts his parents wantonly and ignores authority is not independent-minded and individual, but lacks conscience and awe. People who turn a blind eye to their parents may not respect others. The person who even his parents contradict wantonly may be an extreme person. Wang Jiajing blamed and contradicted her because of the problem of money before she hurt her mother. There is no trace of understanding, only endless demands. Take your parents' efforts as a matter of course, and understand what you force to take as deserved. At the slightest dissatisfaction, he flew into a rage, treating his parents as enemies and his own creditors. What's the difference between such a child and a white-eyed wolf? A selfish remark In the families around us, there are always children like this: When they eat, they will always be the first to move their chopsticks and pick up the best piece of meat; when they choose, they will always be the first to take action and leave the bad ones to others. Most of the spoiled children are selfish and ungrateful. As the ancients said, "going too far is not as good as it is." The same is true of parental love. The excessive love given by parents to their children is not a tonic but poison to him. Children will not be able to take care of themselves in the way of self-reliance; children will lead to blind arrogance and selfishness in special treatment. In the long run, I am egotistical, I can't learn to transposition, and I don't know how to be grateful. As the saying goes, "all evil begins with private words, and a thousand good comes from public characters." Today's society is an era of cooperation. Selfish people are doomed not to go far. If you think of others, you will have a way back. To raise a child who knows how to sympathize with others is to root kindness in his heart. "good will be rewarded". Children who are kind and willing to share will certainly get preferential treatment from life. I agree with a saying: "Life needs the seeds of gratitude in order to cultivate a 'human' life." Raising children who know how to be grateful and filial piety is not only the skill of parents, but also the blessing of a family. Life is contented with gratitude and happy with contentment.
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