A recent photo of Chen Yihan, 39, who was pregnant with her second child, was exposed, but she was scolded as a hot search: "how ugly you look when you have a baby!"
I hope that all the mothers in the world will no longer have to fight alone, but someone will share the wind and rain.
how does being a mother become the original sin? In today's society, the demand for mothers is getting higher and higher. Recently, Chen Yihan, who has not seen him for a long time, posted a picture of his second child on social networking platform. In the photo, she has a new haircut and bangs with short hair, refreshing and energetic. It is probably that she has been relatively thin, coupled with her love of sports, has entered the third trimester of pregnancy, not only did she not gain weight, but she looked thinner than before she became pregnant. He looks a little haggard because he has no makeup. This was originally her normal state during pregnancy, but it was laughed at by many netizens unscrupulously. Some people say that she looks old, like Zhang Junyi's aunt. Some people describe her as "scary", saying that she is so thin that she has eyes protruding, like Dobby. The lines are full of malice, regardless of the fact that this is a 39-year-old mother who is pregnant with a second child. In this regard, Chen Yihan responded through the media, saying that he was "pregnant will be thin physique", and adhere to exercise, good health. Another important reason is that the second child has severe pregnancy and vomiting. Although she does not control her diet, her weight has not increased at all. Then she posted a video with a playful reply to the netizens: "are the eyes very convex? smelly netizens." See here, inexplicably feel a little sad. As netizens said: "it is easy to have children with facial anxiety, but there are many people who oppose anxiety while creating anxiety on mothers." Thinking about these years, it is not uncommon for female stars to be laughed at for being pregnant and giving birth to children. Fat and deformed body will be despised, too thin and haggard will be laughed at, as if it is the mother's fault that she can't keep her beautiful and beautiful. How can giving birth become an original sin? It is already very hard for a woman to be a mother, and it is too harsh to tell her what to do about her body and appearance. They only saw that after a woman became pregnant and gave birth, she was not full of collagen, slim and delicate makeup, but they did not know how much the woman had paid for giving birth. No matter before and after birth, it is a difficult hurdle for mothers. Before entering the delivery room Every mother's heart is up and down. The practice of being a mother begins from the moment of pregnancy. With a little life in her belly, my mother faces a purgatory-like exam at any time: Early fear of abortion, mid-term fear of deformity, late fear of neck, hypoxia, hold back grade. 280 days of pregnancy, every day is frightened, and every step is like treading on thin ice. Especially when it comes to the third trimester of pregnancy, even the mother of the second child, who has already given birth experience, has butterflies in her stomach in the face of unknown risks. A few days ago, Madina, the mother of her second child, who was already in labor, experienced the fear again because she felt that the baby's fetal movement was weak. Although a false alarm was found after the antenatal examination, the doctor still let Madina take 10000 steps every day because the baby had not yet entered the basin when the baby was due. With a heavy belly, I am usually tired to walk a few steps, and I have to walk 10000 steps, so I can imagine how uncomfortable it is. Fortunately, after two days of violent departure, Medina finally gave birth to her second daughter. However, not every mother is so lucky to get through the pregnancy. If the pregnant mother is in poor health, the long road of protecting the fetus is more like walking a tightrope every day. When Xu Ruoyi, 40, was pregnant, she lay in bed for 142 days and received 300 injections because the fetal position was too low. When Yinger was 3 months pregnant, only one of the twins was left because of massive bleeding during pregnancy. There is a group of pictures on the Internet that vividly show the process of fetal baby's development in the mother's body. At the end of the first month, the fetus is less than 0.5 cm long and weighs about 1 gram. In the second month, the fetus grew to the size of peanuts, with a preliminary human shape, the heart, blood vessels, brain and other major organs appeared, and the skin began to form. At this stage, pregnant mothers are particularly required to protect themselves from chemical elements or bacteria that interfere with the process of cell differentiation and cause fetal malformations. In the third month, the fetus is like a "big-headed doll", with a body length of 6-9 cm, which has increased at least 30 times compared with the first month, and its weight has reached 20 grams. In the 4th month, the structure of fetal facial features gradually improved, and fetal movement began to appear due to the development of skeletal system. To ensure that the child grows taller, pregnant mothers need calcium supplements. In the fifth month, the fetus grew to about 300 grams, and the pregnant mother's belly bulged obviously and began to have difficulty in movement. At the 6th month, the fetus is 30 centimeters long and weighs 600 grams. This stage is the "boom period" of the fetus, and the pregnant mother needs to take in more nutrients to ensure the integrity of development. In the seventh month, the fetal brain is so developed that it can control its limbs and is sensitive to external stimuli. The rapid increase in oxygen demand requires pregnant mothers to have better physical quality. In the eighth month, the fetus's brain activity has been very active, like to "punch and kick" in the mother's stomach. In the ninth month, the baby weighs 2500 grams and is still growing at a rate of about 30 grams a day. At the 10th month, the fetus is full-term and may be born at any time. After reading this group of pictures, I can't help sighing: It's not easy to be a mother. In the tenth month of pregnancy, the mother bears not only a bulging belly, but also the discomfort caused by changes in various parts of the body: Pregnancy vomiting, low back pain, joint pain, pubic pain, all kinds of torture. The gestation process of life is great and magical, but it is the mother who is even greater than it. Because what supports this magic is the mother's long hardship and patience along the way. When entering the delivery room Let you know that human feelings are cold and warm in an instant. I often hear people say, "having a baby is a pain, and it will be all right after the pain." How can people who have not experienced it know that the so-called "pain" is actually risking their lives. There is a video of the last 4 minutes of spontaneous delivery on the Internet, and everyone who has seen it can't help crying. His teeth clenched and his veins burst out. The doctor asked her if she wanted to rest, but she didn't want it. Her husband asked her if she wanted chocolate, and she said she wanted to "concentrate". She wants to have the baby before the rest of her strength is used up. Because there is no room for a little relaxation in childbirth, such as the thrilling moment below. A parturient woman had sudden eclampsia and cardiac arrest during childbirth. After learning that his wife had been rescued, the husband kept asking outside the ICUThe medical staff bowed While writing a note to his wife: "the doctor said you were awake, and you scared me. Sister is fine now, in the intensive care unit, there are doctors and nurses watching, you don't have to worry, cooperate well with the doctor. It's over! Don't think about it! You and your sister need to be fine. Don't think about anything else. I have a husband. " Some people say that the delivery room is the best place to witness the hearts of the people. All the sincerity and hypocrisy, the warmth of human feelings, can be shown incisively and vividly at the moment of the alternation of life. Small delivery room, including thousands of worlds. A pregnant woman who had just come out of the delivery room was weak and worried. After seeing her husband, what she blurted out was: "I say it's a son, right? Are you alive? Is my mission over? Did you make your mother happy? Pretty happy, huh? Are you laughing and crying? I've been crying for a while, so I can get a reward. " The pregnant woman had tears in her eyes and asked questions as if she were talking to herself, which made people both distressed and angry. Another pregnant woman, after giving birth, was pushed out of the delivery room by her husband, and her mother-in-law only looked at the baby and rushed to her wife with a blanket. The moment my mother-in-law held her wife up and wiped her tears, countless people were moved to tears. In the delivery room, the wife tried her best to give birth to her life. Outside the delivery room, someone crossed his legs and calmly played with his mobile phone. There are also people guarding the door of the delivery room, worried and anxious. The mother gave birth to a second child in the delivery room, and the daughter was worried that her mother would not be able to get out, holding her father in her arms and crying to herself. Chen Weijun, director of the documentary Shengmen, said: "production is a door, outside the door is the joy of waiting for a new life, but inside the door is the thrilling fight with death." Whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section, they are all fighting for their lives. The belly is cut into seven layers and the bone is split into ten fingers. Every woman, struggling in the delivery room, has experienced the test of life and death. All she looked forward to was that a few steps away, there was someone who guarded her silently all the time, with her in her eyes and her in her heart. After the delivery room Giving birth is not the sacrifice of a mother. Giving birth is an extremely difficult and long "marathon". Having a baby is not the end. On the contrary, for a family, the addition of a new life is the beginning of another difficult challenge, but a common challenge for parents. Everyone has to be re-baptized, especially the mother. Postpartum body shape, long spots, stretch marks, pubic separation, postpartum depression and other unspeakable sequelae, each of which is enough to make people collapse, we must muster up the courage to break through every hurdle. There is a popular online collection post: "one year after giving birth, how are the mothers?" Many mothers upload photos of their abdomen after giving birth. Loose flab on the abdomen, deformed belly button and ugly C-section scar are all signs of what mothers have suffered. Zhao Liying made a quick comeback after giving birth and seemed to be full of vitality, but in the variety show The traditional Chinese medicine, pelvic appliance and plaster affixed to the cervical vertebra with her revealed her true state. Yuan Yongyi, Zhang Jianni, Liu Xuan, Xi Mengyao. Countless female stars have suffered from postpartum depression. There is no mother who doesn't love beauty, and no mother is born Superman. But for the sake of their children, they are willing to leave ugly traces in their bodies and endure all kinds of sequelae, as mothers who upload photos say: "this is proof that we are giving birth to new life." Like McDormond, the heroine of "three Billboards", she never deliberately decorates the wrinkles and loose skin around the corners of her eyes, because: "this is a map, a road map of my life, including all kinds of wrinkles." Just as Tao Hong said in the talk show "Women's Thirty plus" that she "aged instantly, presbyopia, white hair and a spotted face" after giving birth, it was difficult for her to accept the huge change. But she also admitted that after her daughter was born, in the process of upbringing, a lot of good changes took place in her mentality: "I lived too hard before I was 37, and now I don't feel the need to try my best to enrich anything." Sukhomlinsky said: "after becoming a mother, a woman radiates all her strength and beauty like a blooming flower." Childbirth is painful and parenting is difficult, but there are still countless women who unswervingly choose to be mothers. They all do it because of love. Fortunately, while mothers are being baptized, more and more dads are on the journey of growing up as fathers: Lee Seung-hyun reminded us of his experience as a stay-at-home father that the role of a mother in parenting is not as simple as she thought. Zhang Ruoyun told us with his skillful posture of changing diapers that his father could take good care of his children by himself. Even if, like this father, holding the child is a little bewildered, a little silly, a little stupid, but that cautious appearance, it is very warm. Giving birth is a matter for two people, not the sacrifice of a mother, but a challenge that parents must face together. The pain of childbirth, the pain of parenting, mothers have been walking alone for too long, carrying too tired. If this is an adventure, I hope that all the mothers in the world will no longer have to fight alone, but someone will share the wind and rain. May every man know how to take care of his wife.
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